my bf is the BEST BF a girl can ever hav..he dont flirt w/ other chiks..doesnt play..is soo caring towards me, loves me so much, takes such good care of me, advises me n tries to help me in the maturest way possible..and he is always there for me..as a BF and a BEST FRiend..he is soo gr8.i dont think any1 has this type of guy...but the prob is even tho i love him 4 who he is..i dont feel any attraction for him...as he is not that good looking(sorry to say)..and he has kind of a belly and stuff...so its like wen we make out i dont find myself intersted...so i tend to go toward other guys...and get attracted to them...and recently i started liking this guy...shame on me..but he is a asshole who plays around but still i like him.and hes moving tomorw to some other place and im sitting here sooo sad while my bf is here, being so caring to me..wtas wrong with me..how can i improve myself with my bf n start feeling attraction to him..n wat can i do abt that other guy..Shud i jus drop him...
2006-10-13 21:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE STOP YOUR INCESSANT WHINING AND IDIOTIC CHATTER!! IT'S CALLED GRAMMAR.......LEARN SOME!
2006-10-17 14:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont like what I'm going to say, but remember that you are the one who asked for opinions.
If you are a good enough friend to your "BF" and he's been so good to you, why don't you be kind enough to be honest with him, so he can move on with his life?
It's too bad you go by how he looks and if he's got a belly or whatever. I'm sorry to say this because I don't like saying bad or mean things to people, but you seem to be very immature and shallow.
I would agree with you dropping him, so he can meet someone who will treat him better and appreciate him for what he is. You don't deserve him. The way you wrote "...shame on me..: like you don't really feel too remorseful about things.
You call one guy an "a__hole" because he plays around, so what does that make you?
The sooner you take a real good look inside yourself and make some attitude changes, the sooner you start to mature and become a beautiful person on the inside.
2006-10-14 04:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's no ugly person in the world, just lazy.
if you mind about his belly, advise him ( in a good sweet way ) to engage in some activities to reduce the size of the belly, or better still, participate in some sports together. You might like another side of him that you doesnt even know its exist.
If you drop this current bf, you might lose a gem cos he sound so great, but if your not feeling him, its bad as well. If he really love you, he will change alittle for you ( more crunches and dressing up more - I told my bf to change his clothes thousand of time before we go out. lol )
I think I know you like bad boys eh. This bf of your is too nice, and not very exciting eh. communicate with him to see if he wanna try something exciting with you.. hehe sound like fun dont u think??
After a month or so, if you still have no feeling for him, its best to let him know. He will be sad but seeing you happy will make me happy as well. If so, damn he really loves you.
2006-10-14 04:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by CindyHoneyy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should back off, and let him know you need to do this. Take some time apart to think things through without being rushed or distracted. Also, you shouldn't be making out if you can help it.
2006-10-14 04:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by j0n4hb 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how u feel. be honest with him. you are both so young and by telling him the truth, maybe you can still keep a friend. don't confuse lust with love. the other guy wont treat u good. so don't waste yourself with him but maybe you can find a guy you have all the right feelings for. good luck
2006-10-14 04:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is messed up If you don't feel attracted to your bf then you should tell him Don't fake it. We'd rather be ineffective than deceived
2006-10-14 05:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Junior 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drop both guys and concentrate on ur life. if ur studying then concentrate on tht
2006-10-14 04:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay friends with ur bf..
2006-10-14 04:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Karine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont go out the asshole whatever you do.....
2006-10-14 04:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋