my bf is the BEST BF a girl can ever hav..he dont flirt w/ other chiks..doesnt play..is soo caring towards me, loves me so much, takes such good care of me, advises me n tries to help me in the maturest way possible..and he is always there for me..as a BF and a BEST FRiend..he is soo gr8.i dont think any1 has this type of guy...but the prob is even tho i love him 4 who he is..i dont feel any attraction for him...as he is not that good looking(sorry to say)..and he has kind of a belly and stuff...so its like wen we make out i dont find myself intersted...so i tend to go toward other guys...and get attracted to them...and recently i started liking this guy...shame on me..but he is a asshole who plays around but still i like him.and hes moving tomorw to some other place and im sitting here sooo sad while my bf is here, being so caring to me..wtas wrong with me..how can i improve myself with my bf n start feeling attraction to him..n wat can i do abt that other guy..Shud i jus drop him...
2006-10-13 21:19:57 · 8 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dam if this doesnt scream "treat a girl like trash and she'll love you forever" I don't know what does....
2006-10-13 21:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Just your average guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you aren't attracted to him, then just try starting over in the relationship. You never know, you might actually find a spark somewhere in there. But, if you really don't feel anything for him, then just say that you don't want to consider it a relationship anymore and just remain friends. If he really is as caring and understanding as you make him out to be, then he'll understand.
2006-10-13 21:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no magnetism and no love in your present relationship,
you will be doing your boyfriend a favor by telling him it is time to move on.
You cant make something be that isnt to be.
I hope you dont fall into relationships with a queue of predatory,
if exiting, males for you are sure to get hurt. But, sometimes, getting hurt is the only way to learn.
2006-10-13 21:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by hls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,if you have no physical attraction to your boyfreind,it would be the best interest for both of you if you broke it off with him because,if you continue to be his girlfreind but are not physically attracted to him,you are going to hurt him the longer you stay in the relationship with him.Don't tell him he is unattractive...just tell him that it would be better if you two are best freinds and,if he keeps asking you "why" and hounds you with questions,then tell him you are not attracted to him.As far as that other guy goes,why would you wanna be with someone like that?...There's no reason to date him-if he's an asshole and if he is moving...
2006-10-13 21:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya some adult men are like that yet this doesnt propose its a true love or not ? by way of fact u knew approximately him how he behaves wid u yet what the element he needs from u isn't stable u ought to tell him and make him understand that that's not stable u ought to attend till married yet plzzzzz dont do it plzz and be carefull yet u ought to make him understand in a suited way so as that ur relation cant injury so suited of success for ur relation and have a satisfied existence
2016-10-16 04:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your own heart to a good counselor and talk this through. It will help to answer your questions, give you some perspective on your relationship and your reactions, and ultimately lead to wiser choices if the counselor is good and you are honest. I found my excellent counselor years ago by calling a reputable church in my area and asking whom they might recommend.Take good care of yourself now.
2006-10-13 21:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not attracted to your bf then whats the point in going out?
your relationship is missing a major ingredient!
2006-10-13 21:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bbm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart
2006-10-13 21:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by df d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋