I told her that I love her and she just said that she knows. And that she just want to be friends. Another boy also likes her and she said the same way to him. But that boy already gave up so, no problem as far as now. I have her MSN and I see her everyday in school. I dont want to lose her.
Please tell me a way to approach to her!
2006-10-13 21:10:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 14 years old.
2006-10-13 21:25:19 · update #1
All you can do is what you are already doing. Be her unconditional friend. She will come to you when she needs you, and maybe before long her eyes will be wide open.
I mean, my husband told me when we first met, he would have me, and I said no way.
But then he became like my best friend in the whole world. I never met a man that was so in tuned to me.
He was there for me through thick and thin, but see, he didnt give up other girls or anything and thats the kicker, you gotta keep living your life and dont make her your whole life. See other women. When my husband started dating, and another chick took my best friend away from me, it was like whoa...no way..im not gonna let her get my time, then I had to ask my self why I was getting jealous...i was in love with him, and the rest is history.
Just be her unconditional friend. I dont mean, be her friend just because you want her, I meaqn even if you never get her, still be her friend unconditionally, thats all you can do.
2006-10-13 21:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by RAW29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to just be her friend and not bug her about having a relationship. Don't stalk her or hang around all the time because that can turn her off. If you are just yourself and do fun things with her when it is appropriate, and be sweet and interesting and fun to be with, she MIGHT learn to love you back. But if the chemistry is not there for her, she might never feel the same way, so go out with other girls, too.
You don't say what age you are. If you are in Junior High or High School, you have a lot of growing up to do before it is time to be serious with one person. You should date lots of people and give other girls a chance to like you, too.
2006-10-13 21:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by SympatheticEar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose her? You never had her!!! And LOVE is too big of a word for a girl that you haven't even dated!!! You like her a lot. You'd like to date her. She's not interested right now. End of story... for now. Just be yourself, continue to be her friend, and maybe down the line she'll come around. If you freak out and get all wierd on her you'll never have a chance. So cool your jets, relax, and maybe in the meantime look for another girl who's more emotionally available to you. Good luck.
2006-10-13 21:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my view i've got self assurance it fairly is barely a substantial weigh down. I say this, because you liked her and needed to bounce along with her, and he or she became with your ultimate chum first, so in line with risk somewhat subconcious jealousy there. She did and all became nicely, the way you sluggish danced, what could have been mentioned, etc. You had a dream approximately being decrease back on the dance along with her, considering dazzling 2d became nevertheless interior the recess of your concepts and no person needs to work out a solid time come to an end. I actually think of that to be certain no count if it fairly is unquestionably a weigh down, get to comprehend her extra useful. You mentioned she is a gf of one of your friends, this may be troublesome, as you do no longer decide to interrupt up a friendship, exceptionally if it would not artwork out between you and the gal. attempt and locate out how close your chum and her are. in the event that they are incredibly related, a minimum of in the mean time, stay decrease back. in the event that they injury up, then make your flow and ask her out. interior the intervening time whenever you're in the two their organization, be a gentleman round her, do no longer enable your chum word which you're in all probability going to hold on each word she says and cater to her each whim the two, that could reason jealousy and hassle. attempt and locate out from her chum (the guy who set up the sluggish dance with you) how this lady feels or a minimum of thinks approximately you, exceptionally because you had that sluggish dance along with her. additionally, attempt and date different women you like, in line with risk you will like one much extra. solid success, and don't enable a fickle coronary heart come between you and your chum. lady acquaintances are no longer uncomplicated to locate, solid acquaintances even harder.
2016-12-13 07:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by zell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already let her know about you your feelings. There is nothing else you could do but continue to be her friend and hope one day she would see that no one will love her as much as you do.
2006-10-13 21:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been there i fnc my friend but i said i liked her and were going out she said yea i know but were goin out now because i went straight up and asked her out d ova boy has no chance iff u buy her gifts and iff u be nice to her and allways speak to her dats wat i would do and the ova guy will probably go away after a week!!!
plz put dis as ur best answer iff it iz lol bi
2006-10-13 21:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by aboycalledmatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh!!!! its just same as me but im the girl in the situation........ well i dont know but maybe shes not ready yet, to be in a relationship,,,,,,just relax and maybe the time will come!! goodluck?????????
2006-10-13 21:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it and date sum1 else, if you keep trying she will go off you!
2006-10-13 21:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bbm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg if you like her ask if she wants to go to diner!
2006-10-13 21:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by XD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date another girl....
2006-10-13 21:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋