I am in my mid 50's and would love to grow old with a good man. But, it seems most men that age are scared of commitment.
Or they are hurt by their past.
They sometimes aren't healthy and they are over weight. But, it seems like they want miss perfect. I am far from perfect but for my age I am hot.
Older men......what do you need in a woman at this age?
Does a very sexual woman scare you?
2006-10-13 20:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going to be 50 in the spring, I was married 4 years ago. From my personal experience, there is a lot of hurt.
I am not looking for miss perfect, I would like to find some one who shares some of my interests and I hers.
I would like to take a little more time on finding my next wife.
2006-10-13 20:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Duane P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question. I read it's easier to get hit by lightening than remarried at your age. Your question is way too general for an answer. At that age, we are all very different. As a 20 yr old, we could sit around and discuss stuff and all agree. Now, we all sit around and argue because our views are so different. Same with sex, I like a dirty woman, some of my friends freak if their wives do something like stick a finger up their butt.
Then there is the past issue. The older we get, the more we understand woman, the less we like them. The rate of older men being gay is really high. I think it's due to the hassle of a hetero relationship. Face it, women are never happy and are always trying to change men. We do not want to be changed.
As horrible as it seems, you might try the personals. At least you get a lot of choices.
2006-10-14 03:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am mid 50s also and divorced 14 years ago. I fell for the charms of a young woman at work and it ended in disaster after 2 years. I am not hurt by my past, I am healthy and in good shape. I dont think think most men want miss perfect and I would settle down again if the right lady came along and we liked each other.
2006-10-14 03:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by fuck off 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying that u become young if u have young company. Probably older men in particular subscribe to this view. Further, they have their own problems of joint pains and they do not want to have additional member in the family with the similar complaints.
2006-10-14 03:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
plainly speaking, it's competition. first to get to 100 wins...or dies last! lol
kidding aside. i think you 're right about older men being hurt in the past tend to outcast themselves from women. and those men are rare. they are the genuine lovers as i may say. they value lost love and brood over it. although it's not healthy but it's one way for them to justify the phrase "i can't live if living is w/o you". and fear of commitment entails the situation. afraid that they might get hurt and lose it again.
what we need is companionship and someone we can dance with to Tom Jones " SEX BOMB " remix. so don't worry, you being sexual is a plus!
2006-10-14 03:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by hEprEbeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in fact sex is still important to us older guys, that is one reason we go for the younger girls, we know they still enjoy sex, I have been looking for someone about your age, that still is into sex, in a big way....that is one of the most important things to have in a good relationship is sexually compatable...by the way I'm in great shape, and still looking...
2006-10-14 04:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might not have age but i can say this much, if a younger guy is into you that means hes proboly into you, your soul, who you are. an older, well ive got no freaking clue in that one, other than waht you said about a bad past.
2006-10-14 03:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want some1 who they can trust
2006-10-14 03:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by s s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋