2006-10-13 19:41:19 · 15 answers · asked by DDee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't give us any info, but my inclination is to say that if you are feeling jealous and suspicious, trust your gut about that. Move on for a while at least - dump him, and date a few other people. Maybe you'll get back together again when you arent paranoid, or maybe you were justified in being paranoid. Women do have a sixth sense for stuff like cheating. Good luck.
2006-10-13 19:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok im a guy so it could very diffrent but ive been there and for me it was fear of being fooled and ridiculed and the fear to be left alone.
A defense that come running at any sign of illoyalty or what i called illoyalty and it ha the root in deceptions i lived thru as young with no way of get them to rest cause they went invisible
with no real help.
Now,one thing first-it doesnt realy help to know what the root was cause i carried a armour anyway as force of habit,
"a part of me"
fat chance!!
It was great to sloooowly(!!!!) get rid of the darned thing and stand naked.
And it hurts then to.Thats part of it all.
Love is selldom only happy happy but a dance of emotion and that is harder to change.
2006-10-13 20:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by idiotjim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he ever give you a reason for you not to trust him. If so maybe that is why you are insecure. Or if you had another boyfriend in the past who cheated you might have trust issues.
2006-10-13 19:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by kitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because thats how girlies are!!! If your ready for a long term relationship you must get the trust issues sorted out as this is the fundimental part in a lasting relationship.
Good luck!!!!
2006-10-13 19:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Wonderer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
spend some time together doing things you both enjoy, and some time apart doing your own things.
it is possible that you have allowed the relationship to become your whole life....and the paranoia you feel is the result.
it is also possible that he's cheating...in which case having your own life outside the relationship will help you hold yourself together during the break-up.
2006-10-13 19:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
did he cheat on you in the past? If you can't trust than there is no point for the relationship
2006-10-13 19:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to get all in ur business but if you cant trust him, I doubt you should be marrying him
2006-10-13 19:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by a42ddqt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something you need to work out for yourself
2006-10-13 19:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasnt done anything wrong you better chill or it will push him away.
2006-10-13 19:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause your self esteem is low
2006-10-13 19:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by togamadness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋