I just turned 33 in September. I started dating a 23 year old hottie two months ago. She turns 24 in April. We are starting to get serious, but the problem is i am a US soldier. Ive been to Iraq already, but if i go again, can i trust someone who is so much younger while im gone?
2006-10-13 19:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by james c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question is not her age, but is she really into you. If she is really into you, she will wait. Trust her until she proves she can't be trusted. Enjoy the good, while it is good.
2006-10-13 19:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23 turn 24 in April so yeah I think you can trust her if your doubts are just based on age as long as she thinks the relationship is serious 2. So just go ahead and ask her if she would be willing to wait for you if you had to go back?
2006-10-14 02:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oopzz...so she's a hottie...?? If noone can trust a young hottie then the girls never want to be so hot.
Come on if you two are getting serious, the first thing you both have to TRUST in another!
2006-10-14 02:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Schatzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. A 24 year old is not as mature as a 33 year old....That's just a fact and you can't stop it. You've lived more, whereas she is probably feeling 'free' after college.
It all depends on her though. How serious she thinks it is, and how much she cares about you. It could easily go in the way of her cheating...But then again, it could not. It is a judge of character, and without knowing her personally, I cannot help you out.
Hope everything goes well. Thanks so much for serving over in Iraq for us, and if you go again, hope you have a safe return.
2006-10-14 02:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with your instincts, does she seem like the type to cheat if she gets lonely
Otherwise, if she is a good girl she will still be waiting when you come back
At times age may not be a factor in this scenario, Again it would depend on her personality and values, You might not have anything to worry about
2006-10-14 02:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't trust her. So take advantage of the situation for now, and if you're redeployed just say good-bye. You don't want to be worrying about what she's doing or who she's doing when you leave the green zone in Baghdad!
2006-10-14 02:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by B. Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the army before and I have seen the Dear Jon letters and the cheating girlfriends, man sorry for you bro I do not think so...and I think you know that to.Good Luck
2006-10-14 02:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it worked once before right?....have some FAITH
2006-10-14 02:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Powered by Rice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋