So there is this girl that i've been seeing for about 2 weeks now..we only see each other on weekends. when we see each other we are pretty touchy feely. we kiss and hang out. well tonight we had plan's and she got drunk with her friends instead. How can I tell if a woman is interested in being with me, and not just with me for the kissing and stuff! her roommate says that she likes me but i've been seeing other signs. thats why i'm here asking for help. Does she want to be with me by the way she's acting. If I asker her it might put her off alittle bit, b/c she isn't very sure about being in a relationship. which I am fine with I just want to know what the signs are, that she's more interested in being with me rather than just making out and stuff.
2006-10-13 19:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by ssextn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like she is a girl that is very sure of herself and confident. doesnt sound the like the type of girl that would go for a guy that poured his heart out to her. take it easy with her, keep doing what you are doing. its obviously nothing serious, but it could be. play it cool for now.
2006-10-13 19:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you say this girl is isnt sure about being in a relationship. There is nothing here to say that she doesnt like you coz lets face it the only way you would kiss someone you didnt like is if you were drunk (well at least thats what i think). It has only been two weeks so these are the early stages of the relationship. I mean as long as she wants to see you, isnt cancelling every plan you make to go out together to get drunk or do somethingelse, is interested in what you have to say and asks you about doing things then you should be fine.
Maybe if things havent improved by week 4 then maybe have a talk to her. Worst thing you can do is break up and if that happens at least you havent wasted a year of your life and you can move on and find that girl who does care for you....
Good luck
2006-10-14 02:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly_princess_72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, dude, it's only been two weeks! A girl can go out with her friends and have some fun! It has nothing to do with getting all kissy-feely after a couple of dates with you. Two weeks and dating only on weekends isn't even a RELATIONSHIP!!
Kissing is safe and simple. Relationships and getting sexually involved are complicated. If someone isn't ready to go in that direction, what's wrong with a little kissy face in the meantime?
Take a chill pill and enjoy those luscious lips of hers.
2006-10-14 02:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Aunt Gwenna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say keep on kissing on her as long as you can, just don't worry about being exclusive with her. Keep your options open and enjoy it. Because it sounds like she's not that interested.
2006-10-14 02:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by B. Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know if this girl you like, likes to go to parties and get drunk with her friends all the time, like every weekend?! if it is so, you better off dumping her and finding yourself a better behaved woman. unless of course you like that kind of stuff.
2006-10-14 02:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on buddy - just be bold in asking her and make her feel that you care for her whatever her decision is.
2006-10-14 02:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋