He makes a big deal out of nothing and he's hanging out late with his friends that doesnt care about no ones relationship better yet their own relationship that they have with their girls
2006-10-13 19:22:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(1) Unusual attention to appearance
(2) Disregarding your feelings
(3) Can't look you in the eye when you ask him directly or if after denying it he touches his nose or mouth (sign tht he's lying)
(4) Not letting you get anywhere near his phone
2006-10-13 19:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sniff around - if you catch the smell fo SKANK he's cheating...
Really if you have to ask then it's probably time you moved on. Or rather that you flew solo until A) You are able to feel good enough about yourself that you don't constantly mistrust someone else because of a character flaw in YOU and B) You find a guy who's trustworthy enough that you won't even have to worry about him cheating, because he won't. Ever.
You really don't belong in a serious relationship until you can get past those two hurdles.
By the way - there's nothing you've said that indicates he's cheating. Immature, unrealistic, not potentially a good life partner sure, but no serious proof he's cheating.
Define "cheating"? Can he talk to another girl, or is that cheating? If he gets assigned to do a job with another girl and they click, is that cheating? Perhaps you need to accept that any normal guy is going to have normal, healthy relationships with women other than his girlfriend/wife without it being something tawdry.
2006-10-14 02:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no one way of telling if your boyfriend is cheating on you. Him making a big deal about nothing maybe his way of showing he cares. You two may need to have a talk and just let him know how you are feeling and atleast he knows where you are coming from.
2006-10-14 02:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly_princess_72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they change, don't want to be (sexually) intimate as much as they used to, changes the way he treats you, talks to you, doesn't have time of you....
One thing you could do is say the old, "I know what happened just be honest with me, dont lie i know"... Some guys fall for it & blurt it out... although if ur not right then he may get annoyed. Or you could sit down & just ask him to be honest, but they'll always lie. Has he cheated on people in the past? A cheetah never changes it's spots... Follow your instincts...
2006-10-14 03:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your gut you know, now what r u going to do? Don't let him disrespect you now or you live with it the rest of your life. If you don't love him enough for marriage walk away before others see it and think you will put up with that kind of relationship. You set the tone of what you will accept in any relationship right up front and as soon as any sign of disrespect happens you leave then no one will do any rotten **** to you.
2006-10-14 02:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant judge your boyfriend for things his friends do. Just keep an eye out for strange behavior. If he used to make out with you a lot, perhaps not wanting to as much anymore. or standing you up for so called reasons that pop up out of nowhere.
Thigns happen, understand that. But if things are coming up ALL the time. Be suspicious and call him on it.
2006-10-14 02:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shadows of the Cross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chory's got a point. How does he know if you're cheating?
A relationship is built on trust.
It doesn't matter who he hangs out with, if you matter to him, they won't affect him.
You should be trusting that he won't do anything, as he's trusting you'll do the same.
As long as no one's coming up and telling you, you should be set on the cheating thing.
2006-10-14 02:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be cheating, but he is damn sure immature. He doesn't know what his priorities are yet.. You need to back him into a corner and tell him how you feel and if he doesn't change...Drop him like he's hot !!!
2006-10-14 02:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plant some panties in his house, make sure they are to big or to small so it is obvious it is not yours. Then wait till the right moment and convientently find them pull them out, show them to him, and ask him what it is. See what he says, does he lie does he admit it...
2006-10-14 02:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Moxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) first if he's callin you a different name. 2) ask your friends if they have seen him with some other girl
2006-10-14 02:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by ssydny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋