I'm semi-friends with a guy and we sometimes fool around. However, we do NOT have sex and I don't give him oral or anything. Basically he tries to go down on me. I'm still a virgin because I have issues..
Anyway, he plays games, and I asked him "Is it your goal to take my virginity because guys are like that?" He says that it was never his goal and that he had not planned on having sex with me. He calls me "pretty cute" and "pretty attractive." We talk about emotional stuff, etc. and we make out and then fool around, but no sex. We're not really dating, but he calls me once a week or so to hang out and talk. We basically talk about deep, intellectual/emotional stuff much of the time. He said he likes that I'm "challenging," making me think he thinks of my V?
Then right after he said that, he mentions a girl he knows who has a jerk boyfriend. He says he finds her "pretty hot" and he would want to f*ck her, but he does not think she is his type to date.
2006-10-13 18:43:35 · 3 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's up with all this?
2006-10-13 18:43:56 · update #1
And yeah, I know he probably sounds like a player....but what?
2006-10-13 18:46:30 · update #2
Poster 1: WTF? I'm just asking...
I'm dating other guys, and he's dating other girls but sometimes we hook up. That's it. But he also talks to me about deep stuff. I don't know what to think of it all.
2006-10-13 18:48:16 · update #3
I think your "issues" go well beyond your virginity...seek help....NOW. He sounds like a player and you a slut...a match made in heaven.
2006-10-13 18:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he enjoys chatting with you
and he wants to lick you out
sex could happen, but he isn't pressuring you for that
just hoping you might drop your guard some time.
2006-10-14 03:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to leave my "V" alone and stay away from him. Yeah, he is a player!!
2006-10-14 01:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋