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I know theres the saying if you really love someone then you should let them go, but i disagree with that. Don't respond if you disagree with me or if you don't think i'm really in love, because i know i am. I just need to know theres others who agree that i'm fighting for my ex-girlfriend back for a good reason

2006-10-13 18:17:36 · 14 answers · asked by fusion324 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think it is for a good reason and I think yes that it is important to fight for love if you love her... but dont hurt anybody over it and dont cross the boundries otherwise it could turn around on you.. but good luck in your fight!

2006-10-13 18:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by fancy 5 · 0 0

baby, I can see the problem already, she is running because you have your ears closed. you said , "Don't respond if you disagree with me" meaning, I only want to hear from people who will tell me what I want to hear. No wonder she bolted. Relationships are two way streets, give and take. You have to learn to listen and grow wise from the experiances of others if you want to keep your woman loving you back then stop trying to control her. You may be too late, once a woman has grown tired of being told what to think or feel she will not look back once she is free. SOme do but eventually, if there is no chan ges in yoou she will be gone for good. Besides what can you do to get her back if you are unwilling to listen. I bet you want her to hear what you have to say, You need to stop and breath a moment. There are things like stalking laws and if that does not stop you there is family justice. work on you first.

2006-10-14 01:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lynnette G 2 · 0 0

I just spent the last two years fighting to keep my bestfriend, and love of my life.

We agreed we loved each other, and wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.

We looked at houses, cars, and starting a business together.

Yes, fight for your love.

Don't forget about you. Your dreams, your desires, and who you are as a person. If you start to lose these things then take a deeper look, and even do a Pro and Con list of the situation.

Remember people love differently. This is something I have learned the hard way.

I wish you the best.

2006-10-14 01:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0 0

That is really sweet. The sad thing is that you can't usually find someone that will fight for you. I've never found a guy that would do that for me. Fight to protect me or fight to get me after a break up or something. I'd rather it be the sort of thing where he broke up with me or osmething happened but he realized that I was worth a lot to him. If I broke up with a guy I wouldn't exactly want him to fight for me. I'd feel like he was being clingy or desperate. Or if it's something like you are young and one of the persons parents don't like the bf or gf and they fight for eachother to stay together. That's reall cool. I like "How to Lose a guy in ten days". How he proves his love and fights to get her back. It all depends on how the guy wins the girl's heart again. I know that sounds cheesy. But it's the truth. If she broke up with you, then make sure it's a darn good plan to shock her heart back in love with you. I hope it works out. I'm glad to see that there are still guys out there with a real heart.

2006-10-14 01:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 3 · 0 0

Yes I agree with you , however I fought for my wife and it didn't go so well but I feel I went about it the wrong way. Don't be over aggressive and controlling, try to be loving and understanding as well as open and honest, don't hold nothing back when it comes from the heart. And if you really love this person then don't set deadlines and ultimatums

2006-10-14 01:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i really like this guy but i`m not letting him go and i`m not fighting over him with his girlfriend, that`s cause he don`t know i like him. but for you i guess it`s different. since she`s your ex. and you still love her a lot then i think you should fight for it ! go fight and win ! good luck ! =]

2006-10-14 01:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by 5 · 0 0

You can only fight to get her back for so long. She's gotta show some affection back or you don't have a chance dude. Trust me...

2006-10-14 01:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 1 0

Yea you should fight to try and win them back. However you shouldn't change yourself too much to fit one persons wants

2006-10-14 01:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I agreed your view. Yet, you have to give yourself a time frame. After this period, if she still insist she doesn't love you anymore. Please let go. It's really painful & suffer to hold someone's hand that keep shake your hand away.

2006-10-14 01:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by love28 1 · 0 0

I agree

2006-10-14 01:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

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