hi, i have this situation, i have a good friend who has a crush on a guy, they know each other, are friends and talk from time to time, but i dont think he likes my friend , and i have another friend who also likes a lot the same guy, but i think he sees my second friend just as a friend, and i dont think theyll get back together (they were dating) so my second friend had her chance, and i want this guy to notice more my friend and to make him like her, what can i do??? to get them together, or to make this guy like my friend, or to separate this guy from my second friend???
2006-10-13 18:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by i_r_macintosh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to be more spunky act sweet but kinda crazy if he is crazy or if hes sweet then tell her to be calm, cool, and collected around this guy so he doesn't reject her and be like i know u want this when really you don't!! trust me i know !! if she does get dissed then be just friends well tell her to do that well peace and hoped this answer helped you!!!!!!!!! bu- bye!
2006-10-13 18:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by baiinsanity ™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since they both like him, it could get ugly if you don't have anything to do with it, and it could be worse if you do have something to do with hooking your friend up with him. My friends and I always had a rule that we did not mess with each other's boyfriends or ex-boyfriends because it just causes troubles for friendships. And what kind of friend says, "My second friend had her chance.." So what, now he needs to be passed around to another one of your friends and then maybe to another after she has her chance. The truth is you don't exactly know how he feels about the girl he was dating. And people who have dated do get back together time after time especially if they still miss each other and still have feelings for each other. Your friend could definitely get hurt if he dates her but isn't really over your other friend, and your second friend might get hurt if he hooks up with your friend so ....the best thing for you to do is to leave everything alone. If he's not feeling your friend, you can't make him. And if he's still feeling your second friend, if you really think of yourself as her friend (which you don't sound like her friend), you shouldn't try to separate them. Goodness, this sounds like Laguna Beach or something.
2006-10-14 01:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well although you could make ur 1st friend closer to the guy, does it make any difference? do u think that the guy will like ur 1st friend than the 2nd friend more? i think.. its with the guy. if he likes the 2nd friend of yours, you have nothing to do with it. but have to help your first friend accept that its just some crush and have to get over it soon. but if u think ur 1st friend has got the chance to make the guy like him the same way ur friend does, u might as well tell her to keep up with it. but remember, if you lose true friends they'll never come back, its hard for us to find someone like them again. but boys, women always beats for a handsome dashing guy they see. besides that, you can ask your friend to just look for another guy. the right man comes in the right time. and oh yea.. are you in the middle one? well. be careful.. dont like to make pressure on you from both of ur friends.
2006-10-14 01:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by ~desa~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like alot of drama to me! With trying to fix all that, I imagine you have to take alot of tylenol for stress headaches! If I was you, I would pull the guy friend aside, tell him whats on your mind and your idea, and ask him just to give it some thought, and give him the friends number, and let things happen from there, I hope something happens soon, before your head starts spinning off your head. LOL! good luck!!!
2006-10-14 01:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by luv2bawifenmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to just let nature take it's course and not "do" anything. Be supportive of both of your friends who like this guy, but don't get in the middle. If something goes wrong, guess who they'll blame?
2006-10-14 01:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by ICanCan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's official! I have just read the longest sentence known to man and I am dumber now than I was before! Here is a simple answer: Mind your own business and let your friends date who they want. Have a nice weekend!
2006-10-14 01:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Fort Worth, TX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop playing match maker because you could just end up with no friends if the boy likes her they'll get together dint worry
2006-10-14 01:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by redants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if this friend wont hook up with this guy then try to get them together or give your friend confidence like you can do it jut go and talk to him and try to beet your other friend this depends on which ever friend you choose to help.
2006-10-14 01:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by delta_bonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus let it naturally to become lyk tt.. u can't make the guy to lyk ur fren if the guy does not lyk..
2006-10-14 01:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by xiaocrystalrox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋