i have been a nice guy my whole life, but it has never gotten me anywhere with girls, i treat them well, i respect them, im accomodating, i listen to them, but they always end up taking advantage of my kindness, what should i do?
2006-10-13 18:06:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are attracted to the wrong type of girl. I dated a lot of guys, but I the one I married was and is the NICEST guy I have ever met.
Please guys, the answer is not to turn into *******! The answer is to start going for the ladies who have good hearts and can appreciate a nice man! If you turn into an ****** to try and bag a babe, then you might actually hurt somebody that does not deserve to be hurt.
2006-10-13 18:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Vianka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you dude!! I think many of these people need to open their eyes! There's something about a dirt bag, maybe the unpredictability or the danger, that many women are attracted to. It's frustrating as hell! "Nice guys finish last" I wish I had the answer for you, all I can say is that they tend to grow out of it as they age and have been burned a few times.
2006-10-14 01:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cadmaniam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women respect guys who can stand up for themselves. People probably walk all over you because you let them. Women are not attracted to someone who is so nice that he has no backbone. Try going to the webpage at the link below and sign up for the free newsletter:
2006-10-14 01:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some girls are scum, just like some guys are scum. You can't do anything about these people. You just have to wait for someone who really likes you and doesn't take advantage of you. Once they realize how much they screwed up, they will be sorry.
2006-10-14 01:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, girls like if a guy nice to them. But I think you shouldn't too kind. And, maybe you should kinder only with a girl you like.
2006-10-14 01:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Haku_Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why is because they know you won't do anything to hurt them...i guess girls like that feelings of power...but you should put your foot down, stop letting girls walk all over you...you deserve to be respected as well... stay the way you are, because there is someone who will like you the way you are...
2006-10-14 01:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by OnAJourney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being yourself! The right one will come along eventually! In the mean time don't hesitate to ditch those losers!
2006-10-14 01:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt want a guy like that.Just stay yourself and you will find a girl someday that will treat you the same as you treat her.
2006-10-14 01:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by PinkOrchid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit hanging with those types of girls. honestly, i think guys like that are the best. those are the types of guys i fall for. just wait one girl will eventualy come that totally loves that!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 01:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing just the opposite most chicks are used to that maybe they want something diffrent
2006-10-14 01:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋