My boyfriend was giving me oral and he asked if I had came. I said no AND HE GOT ANGRY!?

Question

1.My boyfriend was giving me oral and he asked if I had came. I said no AND HE GOT ANGRY! I was close to orgasm and started shaking a lil and rite while i was at the point of no return he stops and asks did I ***. I said no, he gets up and goes and wash his mouth and says "WELL Y IN THE HELL WERE U SHAKING!'
Also tell me what u think bout this
2.After oral he rinses his mouf or takes a swig of liquor, he said alcohol gets rid of germs, like rubbing alcohol.
3.When he does do a good job he stops in the middle and complains and then tried to throw in sumthin sweet ,"I have to kiss my moma with this mouth! I do enjoy it tho."
4.When he does it he tells me, 'Tell me what u want me 2 do'
I give him instuctions and repeat them but he pretend to ignore me and just wont do it.
I think he is purposley trying to do a bad job. what do u think?
Actually he is 28 and I'm 19...Our sex life is great besides this

Yeah, I can understand about mouthwash cuz after I go down on him I rinse my mouth as well. But at first I didn't enjoy oral on him but with a sincere dedication to pkeaseinf my man, i stuck in there, and now he says i give the best head he has ever recieved.
And by the way this is my first sexual partner.

Answer 1

Yikes.
!. Your BF is an immature & selfish dope.
2. Your BF is not a medical Dr.; alcohol is not an antiseptic
3. Don't give him oral, you kiss your mom with your mouth too.
4. It was a retorical question, he doesn't care a hoot about you or your ability to come.

Besides all that, I think he is WAY to old for you and you are still far more mature than he is. Dump him.

Answer 2

TMI, girl! Seriously, though...I believe that some guys really don't like to perform oral. They would never admit this. And I am sure that the thought sounds good to them. But not the actual reality. Case in point: My bf. He doesn't even try. He makes up excuses. I don't take it personally because he is the only guy who has ever been that way toward me. As far as all the other info you provided: He sounds like an immature jerk. Eliminate oral from your sex life. Don't give or receive if you continue to be with him.

Answer 3

Next time he asks to do it or tries to do it deny him saying that you just want him to get inside you. If he gets upset then you need to just brush off all this other stuff and fake it when you didn't ***. It's normal to rinse your mouth after oral so don't take it as a bad thing. Next time he complains tell him to shut up and keep licking. Guide his head instead of just telling him or pretend you are too excited to say anything.

Answer 4

Aw, does his poor momma-kissing mouth get tired? Jeez, this guy's a wuss. If he thinks it's so disgusting, tell him to knock it off or quit whining. He must really be an amateur if he has to ASK you about it. Maybe he's offended because he thinks you're faking it. Either way, he's a wussy waste. Good luck.

Answer 5

He sounds like his more into pleasing and satisfying his ego than pleasing you. Ask yourself why are you in this relationship? There is more to a relationship than just oral sex and sex. These are just art of a bigger thing. Always remember its always not about whay i want or what you want its about what we want in a relationship, its a give and take, and if the guy really did love you, instead of yelling at you and blaming you why you dint *** he would apologize and try his best to please you again or just quietly go back to reafirming that he loves you and please you again.... Think about it and ask yourself why are you in this relationship, how is this relationship benefiting you, how does this relationship make you feel, does your older boyfriend see somethign more in you than just someone to feed his ego and pleasure, does your boyfriend treat you right, how are you treated in the relationship, do you deserve more? Start asking yourself questions. Remember there is more to a relationship than just sex or oral sex...... and you my dear friend deserve more than just physical pleasure... you are more than this.

Answer 6

There are a lot of SELFISH guys out there. He probably loves it when you do "the deed" for him, but he doesn't like doing it for you. A lot, not all, of the guys out there haven't learned how to please a woman or be intimate with a woman the right way. And, they're too damn proud to take lessons & take them to heart & use them as a TRUE learning experience & get better at it.
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He may not like to perform "the deed" on you, or any woman, at all. Someguys just don't like to do it at all. It just doesn't agree with them. It grosses them out. But it's cool if you do it for them. (Double standard syndrome)

The reason he's getting mad is if it is true that he dislikes doing that for you, then he is forcing himself to do it. The whole time thinking, "Is she done yet?"
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He thinks he can't please you and he REALLY wants to. Men pride themselves on bringing their woman to orgasm. It makes them feel good about themselves. And when they don't, they are either disappointed in themselves, or think you aren't turned on by them.

Answer 7

tell him that you hate what he is doing and next time he's going to do that to you your going to do the same to him. tell him that you got disappointed for that and often times your don't reached the climax of what your doing .be honest to him why you are shaking. good sex can be achieve when both partners talk about it.they have to agree on something.who's going to do this and in return what he expect from you.

Answer 8

Sounds like he wants out of it. You can't force him to enjoy it, but it might be worth talking it out and see what you can both do to make it enjoyable. Getting mad about not reaching orgasm kind of takes the fun out of it, so this needs addressing.......

Answer 9

Hes insecure. If your about to come tell him. Mouth wash, a good thing, everyone has germs.

Answer 10

Sounds like he needs some more practice.