I'm 19 and in university right now and I really want to boost my confidence with approaching girls. I'm shy but I'm not shy. I'll go up to a girl and talk to her, but I don't know what to say. I don't try and make slick moves and I'm not a cocky person. What do girls want guys to say them? I like having intelligent conversations. Do girls like that? What's the right place and wrong place to approach a girl? Rate these places as good or bad to approach a girl: cafeteria, library, bar. Please don't give me one sentence answers.
2006-10-13 17:43:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't approach a girl in a library. She's either there to study or get things off her mind. If anything, pick up a book you like and sit next to her while you read. Proximity is just as good as talking. It's body language. An intelligent conversation is WONDERFUL. Sure, we can act like we're interested in something, but when you've really sparked an interest, you'll know it. Common interests.
i.e. I like art and science. Specifically photography, because I take a class on it and it's a good mix of the two. Don't make up some b.s. if you know something about one of YOUR interests, use it and don't be afraid to relate it to something else in your life, that's what women do subconsciously ALL the time. good luck.
2006-10-13 17:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being able to have an actual intelligent conversation with a guy. I think its awesome! If you want to take a girl out just start with simple conversation and ask her out half way through. Or when every you feel comfortable with asking her. Try and portray confidence but not *********. Pay attention to her body language too. If she's turned toward to and makes good eye contact, she's interested. If she's turned away from and constantly looks around or fiddles with things she probably isn't into you.
2016-03-28 08:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh contrare my good friend. A library is a good place to meet a smart and interesting girl and most likely not a party hooker, however, do not interrupt someone that is studying diligently. That is a bad idea. However, a quick comment or two when it presents itself will get yourr proverbial foot in the door. If she responds and seems very interested chat her ear off. Good luck killer.
2006-10-13 17:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by roncho 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a library-- sit across the table from her. Make eye contact and look down at your book and smile at the same time. Then look at her again. Don't look down if she looks again. If she wants to talk she can. Most people don't go to the library to meet people but you never know...
cafeteria-- are you going to talk to her in between bites? Smile between mouthfuls? cafeterias are bad for conversation. period.
bar-- says sex.
2006-10-13 17:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The library sounds like a good spot.
2006-10-13 17:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by maysimay2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a chick sorry, but girls like honest guys, be yourself and place suttle hints, if they like you they'll pickup on them. i'm pretty good at that, i help alot of my buddies out. no showing off, dont be nervouse, but once you got them try and do something someone else hasnt done, or somethin there not expecting, i took a girl out on a first date in the middle of june and after the movie on the way to her house i stopped at a ice cream place bought us ice cream and sat on the hood of my truck, she loved it, been with her 2 years now, its all in confidence.
2006-10-13 17:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by preddysgarage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-13 17:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Randy G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honest and friendly not pushy though. just be you don't try to pull out lines or impress just be real
2006-10-13 17:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋