1.My boyfriend was giving me oral and he asked if I had came. I said no AND HE GOT ANGRY! I was close to orgasm and started shaking a lil and rite while i was at the point of no return he stops and asks did I ***. I said no, he gets up and goes and wash his mouth and says "WELL Y IN THE HELL WERE U SHAKING!'
Also tell me what u think bout this
2.After oral he rinses his mouf or takes a swig of liquor, he said alcohol gets rid of germs, like rubbing alcohol.
3.When he does do a good job he stops in the middle and complains and then tried to throw in sumthin sweet ,"I have to kiss my moma with this mouth! I do enjoy it tho."
4.When he does it he tells me, 'Tell me what u want me 2 do'
I give him instuctions and repeat them but he pretend to ignore me and just wont do it.
I think he is purposley trying to do a bad job. what do u think?
2006-10-13 17:29:15 · 18 answers · asked by karamel_kandi6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually he is 28 and I'm 19...Our sex life is great besides this.
2006-10-13 17:34:55 · update #1
instead of saying "no", say something like "not yet." even though hes acting like a jerk, you may have offended him a little bit. it also will help to be more physical with your directions. show him what you want, move his head towards the promise land, and if you feel him holding back, run your fingers through his hair and tell him not to stop. tell him when you're close, so he wont think you already made it
2006-10-13 18:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by puffenstuffsrevenge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TMI, girl! Seriously, though...I believe that some guys really don't like to perform oral. They would never admit this. And I am sure that the thought sounds good to them. But not the actual reality. Case in point: My bf. He doesn't even try. He makes up excuses. I don't take it personally because he is the only guy who has ever been that way toward me. As far as all the other info you provided: He sounds like an immature jerk. Eliminate oral from your sex life. Don't give or receive if you continue to be with him.
2006-10-13 17:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by whoanelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he asks to do it or tries to do it deny him saying that you just want him to get inside you. If he gets upset then you need to just brush off all this other stuff and fake it when you didn't ***. It's normal to rinse your mouth after oral so don't take it as a bad thing. Next time he complains tell him to shut up and keep licking. Guide his head instead of just telling him or pretend you are too excited to say anything.
2016-03-28 08:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I go down, I cant hear her words sometimes because I'm so into it. Change your instructions from verbal to physical, like this...
If you want him to move to the right, pull his right ear, to the left, left ear. When your close and don't want him to stop, grab his hair and hold on tight so he cant stop. If he cant figure it out then hold him still and YOU move around til its right. Moans help too. The louder you get the better hes doing. That's how I learned. Now I'm the best.
2006-10-13 17:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uuuhhh I think he has issues. It's like he wants to do it, but then again, he has reservations about doing it. Also, tell him you do NOT want to hear about him kissing his momma while you're engaging in oral sex. What a turn off! lol
2006-10-13 17:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he certainly doesn't win any points in the romance dept.
he seems to have his timing off or maybe his mouth is getting tired.. it's a lot of work you know (or maybe you wouldn't know).
sounds like the 2 of u are out of sync
2006-10-13 17:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he live in a trailer or somethin?
If my girl wants to orgasm while doing something, I will try till my eyes bleed, but then I love her....
2006-10-13 17:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by boydoingasgirlsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like he enjoys doing it he just wants to hurry up and give you an orgasm and be done with it. how can u enjoy something like that when he whines about it so much????
2006-10-13 17:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk!!!!!!!! maybe he gets tired and doesnt want to tell you,he should reallize if u came u'd be screaming or doing alot more than shaking !!!!!!! talk to him !!!!!!!! maybe u need to find some 1 else to satisfy you, actually women do that better u know!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 17:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by sharon c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOnestly sex need mutual respect. He does something for you doesn't mean you need to do the same way.
I support you.
2006-10-13 17:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by Notorious Guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋