ok.. so the situation is that my girlfriend and i are on a "break" whatever that is.. so i just got off the phone with her and she said something about "i need to figure out if i want her or not" and "that i'm always upset" and she can't deal with it so i have to change into a happier person with her if i want to date her.. so i feel that i can change and want to change for her... i love her more than anything in the world... so i've tried telling her this but she won't believe me so i was thinking of singing a song to her to show my desire to change.. would that be a good idea?
2006-10-13 17:26:06 · 14 answers · asked by comemychildren 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what kind of woman she is. In general, most women would love for their man to "prove" their love to them. Most men don't though. This is the kind of stuff women find in those romance novels. I say, if you are truly in love with her and want to be with her "till death do you part", then you will be able to visualize the two of you when you are old and grey, sittin' in your rocking chairs, and still in total love. If you feel this way, and your girl is the "receptive" type to that kind of doting, then by all means....sing that song!! Good luck. There should be more men in the world like you. Women would be happier, and therefore, the world would be a better place for men.
2006-10-13 17:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do sing a song, but sing it where it would show her you really care about her. Maybe in front of her friends. Don't worry what they will think or others.. You are not trying to get them.
and end it with few romantic lines or say how much her company means to you. It will work like a charm.
Good Luck
2006-10-14 00:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Rink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you upset alot of the time. if you know why you are upset all the time. have you talked to her about it. then also have you told her how much you love her. the best thing you can do is talk to her about it. communication is the one of the best things you can have in relationship. do you show her enough affection for her. are you romantic with her. you could also try a song she might really love that
2006-10-14 00:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by dfboxer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, it sounds kind of cheesy. It would be kind of cool though.
But here's my advice: Don't change unless you want to, not because she wants you to and you want to do what she wants. If she doesn't like you for who you are and she constantly nit-picks at how you act, then she's the one in the wrong. I know it's hard to think that way when you really like someone, but you can't let them mold you into their likings. You have to mold yourself and you have to want to. I hope some nugget of wisdom fell out of that.
2006-10-14 00:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, may be but do you think she's going to fall on that ? you have to prove to her that you change by showing it to her and to all the people around you like your friends ,so they could back you up in the future.
2006-10-14 00:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
songs are cute, but she needs to see concrete evidence in your daily actions. Everything you do that has to do with her needs to be positive and loving, and if it isn't at least show her that you are trying to change and that you just need her help and guidance
2006-10-14 00:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Raina B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ohh, you're sweet. God Bless the Broken Road by Rascal Flats is a good one
2006-10-14 00:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by angel_lillian001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think that you should try a poem of love if this will not work then try your idea and in the end give her some kind of gift like a puppy or
earings. this ususually works!!
2006-10-14 00:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by delta_bonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOU SHOULD IS GET WITH SOMEONE THAT WILL
WANT YOU AS YOU ARE. YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE TO CHANGE HER OR ANY ONE ELSE. IT ABOUT ACCEPT YOU
AS YOU ARE, IF SHE HAS A PROBLEM WITH THAT THEN
WILL CHANGE ANYTHING BE DIFFENT. BECAUSE MORE
YOU CHANGE FOR SOMEONE ELSE. THE LESS OF YOU
COME. AND YOU MAY NEVER BE WHAT SHE WANT YOU
TO BE IF AFTER THE CHANGE.
2006-10-14 00:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course! try singing right where you want me by jesse mccartney! she would love it! or try a song you made up!
2006-10-14 00:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by vanillaraspooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋