your life to make you stronger in an area of your life, you may not be strong in. or will he do that to teach you patience or how to discern people in the future.
2006-10-13 17:21:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I actually had this very situation happen to me. I married my 1st love. (I am a Christian) I always tried to get him to come to church with me, to share something together. Instead, I decided to share his addictions with him. Long story short-God used my conscience to let me help myself and get out of that situation. I am now happily married to someone who prays with his family at night. No, we do not go to church-he works 12 hrs a day 7 days a week to support the 2 girls the ex fathered. I thank God for my life every day. We do not have much but at the end of the day, I do not have to worry about anything. I just put my faith in God now. I feel like my life with my ex was a learning experience. Now that I know I am worth more than competing with drugs, I can be a better person for someone who deserves to have a hot meal ready for him when he comes home from work!
2006-10-13 17:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 09:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is indeed God that bring a GF or BF into your life, then that person will not draw you away from God. You will both grow closer to God.
"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers..."
Since the bottom-line purpose of dating is to find a mate, why would you consider a non-believer to be a good prospect?
2006-10-13 17:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bob L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop blaming God for your mistakes already. That person is not of god for what does the light have to do with darkness, what have you stopped listening too? To make you stronger, no, he had a better person for you, repent and maybe that person can still be yours. It is time to open your eyes brother, still want only that person, you dug your grave, now sleep in it. He can save her but do not cry to god why when you had the chance to say good bye but decided not to listen but follow your heart.
IT is going to be difficult, it is going to hurt but hey, you got what you wanted.
2006-10-13 19:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Eloy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋