do you consider this being polite and respectful of your boundries or do you view him as weak and not having enough courage and desire for you to just kiss you?
2006-10-13 17:13:49 · 19 answers · asked by Just your average guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all honey if you can find a man this day in age that still has enough respect and consideration as to ask you for a simple kiss for the first time, well you better hang onto that one. I was asked for a first kiss and ended up spending the last 13 years with him, he is still just as considerate today as he was then. Sounds to me you may have a chance at a good guy, goodluck sweety.
2006-10-13 17:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by angel_luv_31 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Consciously, I belive all women find that sweet and romantic. It's deffinately the safe way to go. But with some girls, taking the opportunity given is the most attractive way. Subconsciously, I think it's more attractive when a guy takes the kiss, but some girls may get offended. Good luck.
2006-10-13 17:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way any guy should get a kiss on the first date if asked is if he respects boundaries and shows u a n interesting time and that hes interested.
2006-10-13 17:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by sexy alli 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course he's being polite and respectful at the same time.
If I were you, I'd see were it leads. It shows that he greatly admires you and is very conscious of not wanting you to get the wrong impression.
There's not many men in this world today that actually care about what you the woman feel.
2006-10-13 17:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by nate_625 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hahaha, i could think of that's gorgeous if a guy asked if he ought to kiss me. It would not be ruined, that in simple terms makes him lovable. yet sure, nevertheless physique language is extremely considerable. you're able to desire to not touch a woman while you're actually not interested in her... except touching ability hugging. Hugs are for each guy or woman. If a woman kissed you once you probably did not opt for to be kissed, you're able to desire to be the only to tell her, in any different case she can bypass to lala-land and not even word you probably did not advise it romantically. yet sometimes we could desire to undergo in innovations that usually a kiss is in basic terms a kiss. For a rule i could examine the physique language first and once you're uncertain, ask.
2016-11-28 04:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so good of the guy, especially if the girl also wants to do the thing, but is she shy to ask or initiate.
if u had been in deep mutual understanding with the girl, then it would also be okay not to ask permission anymore. provided u do it in the proper place with proper timing...maybe at the time when the girl already wants it to happen.
2006-10-13 17:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by 19-year old secretive lady 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think its pretty respectful and I like that. But then again, I would love it if he just surprised me. It would say a lot about the guy if he just did what he felt was right.
2006-10-13 17:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's respectful but personally i day dream about a guy i hav a total crush on at skool just walkin over to me and kissin me either way it's so hot!
2006-10-13 17:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its sweet when guys do that its got nothing to do with weakness
but it is pretty cool when guys just go for it and kiss a girl
so it doesnt matter
2006-10-13 17:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by ellmo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy. I asked my current wife that and it worked. We actually make fun of it these days "Would it be approporate for me to kiss you?". Nothing wrong with asking...and I am sure most women would prefer that to assuming.....
2006-10-13 17:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Scott W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋