I'm a 27 year old guy and I'm very much in love with my girlfriend and she is also with me. How do I tell her or should I tell her that I wear her clothes when she's not home. I've always known that I have a strong feminine side but I've always kept it well hidden. I wish that I could be honest with her but I'm scared to death of losing her. What should I do???????
2006-10-13 16:42:39 · 25 answers · asked by bartsimoson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur both r so in love, u have to b urself with her, share everything
be honest , tell her everything snd she'll appriciate ur honesty
and if love exists then dont worry about losing her for smthn like that! everything will b fine :) good luck
2006-10-13 16:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by green_n6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you are not
gay. It is okay to have a feminine side, and most girls find that very attractive. Just tell her that you have a strange thing for women's clothing and if she really loves loves you, then she will accept you no matter what you do, or what odd interests you have.
2006-10-13 18:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by osembob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her if you're scared to death, but when that fear dwindles due to the guilt that drives you crazy for keeping the secret..then tell her.
Maybe you can gradually, indirectly introduce it to her. Maybe you should ask a seemingly "random" question pertaining to men dressing in woman partner's clothing and ask her what she thinks of it?
2006-10-13 16:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by wearyblossom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a Muslim is strict upon herself, i'm particular she might want to dress modestly :) Revealing clothing... Islam does let us know to dress modestly, notwithstanding the overall public of Muslims do no longer follow this rule. some do not positioned on the Hijab yet are modest of their decision of clothing, and others positioned on the Hijab and positioned on revealing clothing.. we are no-one to guage all of us. If someone makes a decision to expose his pores and skin, it is his will. we received't centre them and cause them to seem shameful because bear in mind God has given us loose will. go away it to God to guage those who do no longer dress appropriately. Eid Mubarak.
2016-12-04 19:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you tell her you love wearing her clothes around the house when she's not home, you WILL lose her!! Get out of the relationship now while you can without saying a word so you don't hurt her and when you wind up a famous gay fashion designer, she'll know why you left. OK? Good luck.
2006-10-13 16:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, well, well, I tried telling the females on this site some days ago, that probably most of their men had little secrets like this - but they didn't believe me.
Well done for 'coming clean' - don't worry, it's harmless fun if kept in check.
2006-10-13 16:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything, just take her shopping like a lot and help her pick out clothes that would look good on you for her!!
2006-10-13 16:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by Interested Fish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Holy crap! I have heard of guys wanting to wear women's clothing, but they were gay. And you are not gay? You just like girls? Well, you have to tell her. It isn't fair to her that you keep secrets. Tell her you like wearing her clothes because it is your way of keeping her close all day long. Wow, interesting question!
2006-10-13 16:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should tell her. if she loves you as you claim she does, she will accept you for you are. or maybe even buy you some feminine clothes of your own. lol
2006-10-13 16:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lmao honestly when was the last time you had sexual intercourse with her. If you have sex often... I don't think... you would still be... desperately missing her THAT much.. lol. Oh by the way.. have you tried on her thong yet? send me a picture of that LMAO!!!! i'm jk lol
2006-10-13 16:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tank D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋