When my gf & I first had sex, she was always wet, I would just have to touch her thier and within seconds her juices are oozing out. Well its only been 2 weeks solid that we just went for it but she started to get dry & had to use lubricant. Is this normal,
is it like not getting a full erection to put it in better terms from a male point of view?
2006-10-13 16:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by devilinme 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's normal and lubrication makes it a lot more comfortable for women. And no, it's not like not being fully aroused.
2006-10-13 16:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could be caused by other things than her not being sexually aroused. If she is dehydrated she will have trouble getting lubricated down there, but to be on the safe side just ask her if she likes what your doing or what would feel better. Maybe also suggest she drinks more fluids especially water.
2006-10-13 16:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's got a lot to do with hormones. Women get more wet during ovulation when they are fertile, and are drier when they are less fertile, such as straight after a period.
It's normal for some girls to need lubicant sometimes, and it's not the same as getting a semi-hard on. She may need a little more foreplay and "attention" during times when she is more dry.
2006-10-13 16:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The intense excitement of "first lust" has apparently started to wear off already, and since the "decline" happened so very quickly, if I were you I certainly wouldn't be making any long term plans with this young lady. Her interest in having sex with you (and being with you) will decrease the more she realizes this was a purely sexual attraction that is wearing out its welcome, and then she will be prompted to look elsewhere to get that "new partner rush" again with a different guy!
2006-10-13 16:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope, she's already losing interest. Your touch doen't turn her on anymore. Try something new, don't do just the same old thing everytime.
2006-10-13 16:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ohhhhhhh sorry dude - - - - you're not tripping her trigger for some reason or another - - - - try a little more foreplay.
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has she started taking anti-anxiety meds recently??? that'll affect her too and would have nothing to do with you
2006-10-13 16:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by cheezehead 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's just not that turned on any more. Try something different. Maybe a little romance.
2006-10-13 16:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah... esp' if she was a virgin or had been have sex regularly until she got with you... i was that way when me and my b/f got together..
2006-10-13 16:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋