2006-10-13 16:41:04 · 14 answers · asked by typical_123 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
It isn't how anyone should feel, and it isn't particularly good to feel that way, but - yes - many people feel ugly.
Sometimes someone has a picture in their head of what they wish they looked like, and it isn't at all close to what they really look like. They consider that picture their "standard", and because they don't meet that standard they can't help but feel ugly.
Try to look around and see all the different types of people who are attractive. They're all different. Notice, too, how some people may have beautiful hair or beautiful eyes or even beautiful hands or arms. Sometimes there can be a person who isn't "perfectly beautiful", but if they make the most of what they have that is beautiful; and play down what may be less than ideal, they be attractive in their own way.
Decide to only wear clothes that make you feel good when you're i them. Do some things that may make you feel a little nicer (a facial or face scrub, some extra teeth care or skin care, or anything that makes you feel more attractive when you make it part of your routine. I don't mean get "all involved and obsessed" with trying to be more beautiful. I just mean do a few of those little extras (or think of your own) to help you feel nicer. (Do you feel at all more attractive after you've just washed your hair? )
If, by any chance, you're a teenager, bear in mind a couple of things: It is said that part of the teenage brain isn't finished maturing until 20 or a little later. Because of this teenagers can have a tendency toward feeling depressed, and they even see the world differently because of this situation with the pre-frontal cortex.
Try to sort out all the things you have that are beautiful - inside and out. If you're a young woman do things that make you feel a little more feminine. (These days many of the styles that young women wear are not aimed at making them feel particularly beatuful. They're more aimed at making them feel "in style" or "cool" or "young". There's something to be said for the beautiful, light-colored, sweater than makes your face light up and makes your hair color look richer and brighter.
The point is it is normal, but it is something you need to try to stop doing. Try to make the most of what you are/have, and pay attention to whether you feel beautiful on the inside (because that has a lot to do with how you see what's in the mirror), and realize - if you're young - that part of growing mature is finding your own beauty and elegance.
2006-10-13 16:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, it's not normal to feel ugly all the time. And your not ugly. Your wonderful and beautiful. You are made for a reason and even when we dont know why we are here or why we go through certain situations you must know that you are loved and that you are a someone.
You have the oppurtunity to give and take from the world. You have the chance to lighten a smile in someones day and learn something new, which you can use in later on in life. But the worst thing you could do is take from the world. Youd make the world a bit more empty than it is. Im not trying to offend you in any way, but what i mean is. The world is in such need of good, of changes, no more wars... we need peace and killing yourself or feeling down all the time just increases what many are trying to fight. WE all as teens fight an everyday struggle when we make our choices and when we take a step out of our homes.
Today when you go to sleep, and when you wake up look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself "I am beautiful and I will do something great today!" SMILE! SMILE! SMILE!
"Never let the world break you, for they dont know your stuggles and dont know your inner secrets. But break the world, and show them great things because they need you more than you need them."
Hope you feel better.
Margret Diana Li Diaz Fley
2006-10-13 17:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by diana li 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal. Best thing to do is talk with someone a parent, brother or sister. I sometimes feel ugly but friends tell me all the time that I am not. if someone is calling you ugly they are probably self centered and you should ignore them. Inside is what matters the most.
2006-10-13 16:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by firemanemt4evr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 07:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends who you ask. A lot of people feel ugly all the time.
2006-10-13 16:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. if you feel ugly all the time i am sure that all other aspects of your life are affected. perhaps you should speak to a counselor about your apparent insecurities. in the meantime, ask yourself what you would like to change about yourself to feel more beautiful, and then take the steps to change them.
2006-10-13 18:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we may not feel the greatest, and sometimes we feel we're on top of the world. Don't worry about appearences, when you find that special someone, the one who truly cares about you, he will find that you have a kind heart, and to him, you will be the most beautiful woman in the world.
2006-10-13 16:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing called ugly. At least that person should feel good. It is a truth.
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2006-10-13 17:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Aww, darling! It sounds like you have some insecurities. I'm sure you're not ugly!
2006-10-13 16:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really that means u might have a low self-esteem problem.. or have signs of depression you should talk to someone... Not trying to make fun of u. Just talk to ur bestfriend I do... Its helps me out alot cause they give u something to think about.
2006-10-13 16:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Miguel R 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋