Do serious men that are plannin to settle down preffer to marry a virgin? I don't know whether i should o when i should loose my virginity. What benifits will that bring me later. Do men really care if your a virgin or not. How does that make a differance?
2006-10-13 16:40:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a man, married 36yrs old.
This is my own personal view, but may not be applicable to all men.
I'm serious in doing things. including answering your question.
When "serious" is mentioned, virginity or sex is NOT the first priority.
There may be lots of good thing a lady have before I become serious and married her.
Ask yourself, what are the + and ++ in you, work from it and change it to +++s.
Hope, i did guess wrongly, you are a girl.
If you are still a virgin--- keep it until your are married. Don't let anyone engrave a word 'regretted' on your body. As your future husband may mind.
If you are not a virgin--- Just be it. There are lots of guy out there like me, don't mind.
True love consist of many things, sex is just one very very small fraction only.
Live well, hope you will find your true love soon.
2006-10-13 17:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by alan chan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only virgin Men should be Entitled to a virgin Female
Not some promiscuous walking disease
Why do the most perverted expect a virgin
2006-10-13 16:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Serious men usually don't worry too much about a girl's virginity (unless she's been with ALOT of people) they want someone who's compatible with them. I'm sure it's on their mind, but flip the table. The guy is probably thinking that the girl is thinking the same thing. As far as when you should lose yours? That's something that noone can answer for you but yourself. It has to be when it's right for you, not when someone is bugging you about it. Be true to yourself.
2006-10-13 16:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many years ago, when our parents were still picking mastodon gristle from their teeth, virginity in a girl was considered a necessity by men for marriage. A deflowered girl was considered "used goods" and therefore unworthy of a decent man.
Thank goodness we have moved beyond that foolishness. Sex before marriage, between consenting adults, is no longer the horrible thing it once was.
However, I will say that if you choose to save your maidenhood for "Mr. Right" you have as much right to that decision as the girl who scatters her buds where she may.
If you meet a man whose only criteria for marriage is your unsullied body then move on and find someone who cares about more important things, like love and respect and devotion.
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2006-10-13 16:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats silly, dont think that. the thing about guys being with virgins is cos guys hate thinking that their girl has been with someone else. they wonder how they compare etc. its insecurity on the mans behalf.
so to answer your question, normal men dont care if you are a virgin or not. and if you love someone it not gonna make a difference. so yes have funb and lose your virginity. be safe though!
2006-10-13 16:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if a man is a virgin himself does he deserve a virgin wife.only loose your virginity when you are both truely in love and plan to marry for sure.I woulnt expect a virgin to marry me unless that is what she wanted and i loved her.If she has slept with too many men before i would want blood tests for diseases and probably think she is not going to change Only once or twice in a relationship i would accept we all make mistakes.most men will try hard to take your virginity its up to you to say NO UNTIL THE RIGHT ONE COMES ALONG .HOW WILL YOU KNOW HE'S THE RIGHT ONE HE WILL WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE READY .
2006-10-13 17:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a guy friend who tell me when it comes to marridge although he act like he don't, actually he does. If there is a virgin girl he will marry her over someone who is not.
And i was like... you are not a virgin yourself, what right do you have to demand that your wife be a virgin!!
2006-10-13 16:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, no one really wants a used pair of shoes. Plus a virgin is a promise of healthy non STD infected kids.
2006-10-13 16:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Eldude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some men do and in your case you're very lucky cause he wants to preserve you until marriage which can be a beautiful thing.
2016-05-22 00:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m staying a virgin so i want 2 marry a virgin
2006-10-13 16:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by city 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋