Well, There is this guy named Kyle, he is always himself. I like that alot!!!! But, whenever I'm myself he thinks me of weird.... Any tips to be myself without looking dumb? Please be seiroius. I am really looking 4 help on this one. Thanks.
2006-10-13 16:39:23 · 9 answers · asked by Carly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you could start by accepting and loving yourself for who you are and stop worrying that other people will think you are dumb. They don't control who you are or how you act...you do.
2006-10-13 16:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Kyle is playing a role himself. Who knows? The only gift we can give anybody is ourselves; no one has the right to try to change you.. If Kyle did not feel insecure, he would not be trying to change you. If he really likes you, then why is he trying to change you into someone else?
It takes a whole lot of energy to be someone we aren't. It took me a lot of years to discover that. Guess what? I'm kinda weird, myself. I like it. It makes me, me. My Friends like me that way. If it isn't all right for anybody, then they are not a friend at all.
It is not easy to resist peer pressure, but the rewards are worth it. If all of us were the same, wouldn't it be a very dull world?. So I have not met you. I still know YOU are exactly the way you are meant to be. God does not make trash. (mother Nature doesn't either.) You are no worse, or better than anyone else. We are all of equal value.
I wish the best for you, girl. You are worth it.
2006-10-13 23:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by bob h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Kyle thinks you're weird when you act like yourself why do you want to hang out with him? Find someone who likes you for you. I know cheesy but seriously it would suck to always be worrying what someone else is thinking of you. You shouldn't have to plan what you are going to do so that he likes you. If he doesn't like you for you that doesn't mean at all that you are weird it just means your personalities aren't compatible and you should find someone with whom you are compatible.
2006-10-13 23:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by dawn27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant be yourself and be comfortable around a person, i doubt its gonna work out.
However, with that being said, my last girlfriend called me weird alot and vice versa. It doesnt necessarily have a negative tag attached to it. Unless you do stuff like laugh at nothing,etc.
2006-10-13 23:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's dumb or weird anyway? Just be honest, and comfortable with who you are. If that's not good enough for others that's their problem isn't it? That way if this guy, or any other guy likes you, then they like you as you really are.
Good luck.
2006-10-13 23:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes its best not to be "yourself". If you have some behavorial problems, or are just rude and ignorant, its not a good thing. Once you better yourself, you are still yourself, with a couple social graces too.
2006-10-13 23:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being yourself means don't caring about what others think and if they are making you not be yourself then you shouldn't be around them. you need to be around people that like you for who you are and not what they want you to be.
2006-10-13 23:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself if he doesnt like it ohh well it is always best to be yourself instead of some1 that ur not
2006-10-13 23:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Justen F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try learning about other things too that he and other people like , u might like all that too then u can have common goround
2006-10-13 23:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋