I'm not bad looking either. I've been told that I'm very cute, but women just don't seem to like nice guys. True or False?
2006-10-13 16:23:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad but true. Its almost like how guys wont seriuos date a girl that is "easy"..there is no challenge. A nice guy is a great FRIEND. Your niceness puts you on a 1 way ticket to friendland. Trust me I have been there...lol
No one is telling you to change...being a nice, caring guy is what every girl wants UNDERNEATH the bad boy exterior.
Next time you see a girl you are interested in...give her your number. Let her call you. Be nice on the phone but keep her guessing about you. Girls like a little mystery. Make her want you.
2006-10-13 16:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caballio you obviously don't know anything about women. If a female is like that it's because a man made her that way and that's the truth. Women aren't hard wired that way you fool. I've seen plenty of girls be attracted to douche bag losers. However those girls didnt have high self esteem and at some point in their life have been screwed over to feel that way. Women don't always want a man that's so available because it looks desperate even though it probably isn't. They can feel like its too easy of a relationship. They want to feel like they worked hard to get something that wasnt just there all the time. Guys are the same way they don't want a girl that's calling them all the time or always there and if they do they won't offer a legit relationship especially when they know they could just have them there when they want. Both sexes are this way. They're more inclined to go after someone that doesn't give them the time of day
2016-03-28 08:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appears that way. Women gravitate towards men that excite them. Have confidence in yourself. Try a different approach. Too nice stops the chemistry. Don't be a dog either though. Women like to be charmed and made to feel that they are "special" and each one is in their own way. Flash a pretty smile and giving a woman a compliment is always a good ice breaker.
Happy Hunting
2006-10-13 16:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you're talking about I love nice guys! Are you sure you are making it clear that you want something more from them, like a date or a relationship. Sometimes even the nice guy has to play hard to get once and a while. Even though I personally I don't like that. Sometimes it's best to just come straight out and say I like you. What do you have to lose!?!?
2006-10-13 16:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by tigerfan95_4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned that whatever the women say - and they will all say that they are looking for a nice guy with a sense of humor.....that's not the whole story. You need an edge to go along with that or their interest won't be sparked.
Find a hook that you're comfortable with and infuse it with your persona when your conversating. Be dark, mysterious, guarded, charming and flirtatious. Once you see the spark, you'll knock them over with your being a nice guy.
2006-10-13 16:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False! WOMEN do like nice guys.,but GIRLS have to run the gamut before they figure out that the bad boys they are dating are not suitable for long term relationships.Hang in there,hon,you'll find someone just right for you,who will appreciate all your nice guy qualities!
2006-10-13 16:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by fantasy_lady428 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The funny thing about women is we say we want a nice guy. But in truth, we want a guy who is nice, but will not let us walk all over him. Sometimes when guys are too nice they tend to give a vibe of weakness. We do not want weakness. Don't let females dictate what you do, etc... Make sure you still take control from time to time. Be respectful to her, but don't let her run over you. You have to emit a self confident vibe. I think most women have fantasies about "bad boys" but we don't want the entire package when it comes to that. We like a little bit of both worlds wrapped up in one guy.
2006-10-13 16:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a little bit of truth to it and it's a little false. Every girl goes through their bad guy stage but in the end we seek out the nice guys. The love of my life is a nice guy. Just wait it out and you'll find someone. I know it sounds cliche but I fell in love with my guy because of his sense of humor. Good luck to you.
2006-10-13 16:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was eighteen I didn't like nice guys. I hunted down the baddest boys on the block. Now I'm twenty-two and the best guys I've been with recently have been the ones who make me laugh and laugh and laugh with their dark sense of humour, and the ones who are so intelligent and experienced that I am constantly learning from them.
2006-10-13 16:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women do like nice guy's, maybe u think ur nice but your not. Or it could be that u need 2 make the first move.
2006-10-13 16:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋