If you couldn't love them the way they needed to be loved?
2006-10-13 16:11:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I have. Sometimes with no warning lives take different directions and a hard as it may be if we truly love the other person letting them go is the truest act of love we may ever give.
2006-10-13 16:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEs I have and it's an hurting feeling but you must know deep down that what ever love you did give the person helped them to grow and to maybe be a little better at the whole relationship thing and to be better in the future.Also remeber that when you love something you got to let it go and if it comes back to you then the love was true and sure
2006-10-13 16:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear .. you are on the way. That is. If that one ain't happy with you, it doesn't make any sence to be together... let it go ... let it be happy with someone else .. that is love. We confuse sometimes love with possesion .. and they are two different things. Yeap, i won't tell you my own story ... but i did that once, many years ago .. almost 10 years ... i cried many tears by that koment.. but now, i'm so happy i did. I don't know if he is that happy ... and i don't know if she is also that happy .. but i did what i knew i had to do .. and guess what ?. I'm really happy now ...
2006-10-13 16:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u luv someone truly "n"u know they r not happy with u,u will let them go coz a true love always want the happiness of the person they love if it's just an infatuation then u will feel insecure abt them "n"then u both will have a strong fight
2006-10-13 16:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by yukti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I let my soul mate go because of the distance between us and felt he found someon else closer who could take better care of him. They are now married and very happy. It took me a year to move on and I have now found a wonderful man to love me. He is not my soul mate, but he truly loves me and I love him. However I will never forget the one I let go of. He was my soul mate.
2006-10-13 16:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my husband and i were fighting i was convinced that i was doing nothing for him. i was convinced that we had nothing in common and i was dragging him down. one day in the car on the way to wal mart i was in so much pain to say it out loud and i was in tears but i told him that i wanted him to be nothing but happy no matter what. i told him that he deserved a woman and went on to describe the type of perfect woman who he deserved. i will never ever forget that conversation. i was prepared to lose him in the condition that he found a woman who truely made him happy. luckilly we are still together and i no longer think he is not happy with me. but it he ever chooses to stop working on the marriage i will only want him to be happy. it will probably kill me, but i guess i do love him enough to let him go as long as he is as happy as he can be.........i hope he doesn't log on and read this
2006-10-13 16:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. I dated someone on the rebound who I had been friends with for four years prior.. I cared about him so much.. But I realized quickly that I didn't love him and wasn't going to.. SO I broke it off.. It almost killed him, but we both know now that it was for the best.. He has someone else now.. ANd he has found everything I wanted for him in life..
2006-10-13 16:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by britney813 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is selfish... noone can deny that
when u love someone u wish to spend the rest of ur life with that person
but when it comes to love from one side, then the reason to let them go is diginty not anything else
2006-10-13 16:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not so much as letting them go. its can you let them go and be happy else where as if you dont love them. if you dont love this person then maybe its your own happiness your seeking be honest and up front. ppl dont like mind games.
2006-10-13 16:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the opposite of love isn't hate. it's selfishness. if you really love the person, you would let them go. to try to keep them and knowing that it won't work will make you end up really not liking each other. you know the poem IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING SET IT FREE...................
2006-10-13 16:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋