I've been single forever and I find it hard to inhale without knowing what's going to happen next. I didn't literally mean is it hard to breathe, I just wondered if anyone else out there is suffering the harsh single life like myself............
2006-10-13 16:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by essence of silence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and sometimes it gets bad but i do other things to keep from going crazy
2006-10-13 16:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart belongs to someone who will never be mine. I have done what you call the honourable gesture by letting him go. From then till now I have remained single. I don't trust myself with another man and I'm not so sure if I can love again. Yes it is difficult and many times I wake from a start and wonder what would become of a life without someone to share your passion and dreams with... I don't know if I answered your question. It feels more like you've opened a door and allowed me to share thoughts buried deep inside my heart and soul. For that I thank you.....
2006-10-13 23:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety- look at the people who answered your question on a Friday nite....Um yeah a lot of people are single.
What you have to think about is ..the person you are right now...having anxiety attacks because you dont have a partner..the kind of person someone wants to date? You need to focus on yourself. Do things you like to do. Get a job, focus on school, hang out with friends. You are what in your teens- early 20's?...ENJOY being your single age. Some day when your 60 and married you will wish you enjoyed those days you were crying at home in front of yuor computer on a Friday nite.
When the time is right...she will come along. She sure as hell aint coming to knock on your door as you sob on your couch.
2006-10-13 23:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to find anyone until you make peace with being single. No one wants to date someone who seems desperate.
Try cultivating hobbies, activities, and your friendships. A happy, fulfilled person is more likely to find a date.
2006-10-13 23:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think of it this way , it's fine if you're no in love if you looked at the other side of the pic. , imagine if you're in love while your beloved one is hanging around with someone else , everything comes on time , and if you want it to happen so quickly , look at yourself , see if you need something to be removed or added , BUT , you must be convinced in what you're doing , change only if the change wont change the shape of who you really are
2006-10-13 23:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by DeMeNtEd AnGeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not the only thing, that's hard to do, in that case, which happens to be case for both of us. Just where are all the single women, offline?
2006-10-13 23:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive always had a boyfriend, and now that im pregnant and the father left me, yes - its so hard to be alone all the time. but i dont think its really that bad because i need some time to find myself before i go ahead and give my all to someone when i dont really know what my all contains...i think that you should stop looking so hard, and you will find someone...and dont be so dramatic
2006-10-13 23:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by *mommy to two* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely. i dont live to find a boyfriend, but i would love to know that there's someone i can always call, night or day, and know that i have someone to hold me in their arms and that they love me and would do anything for me. i so badly want a relationship, and not just to say i have a boyfriend. i want the real thing.
ur not alone!
2006-10-13 23:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by shelby_kay_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya its bad but you can enjoy your life .and what u said is wrong you have your parents friends to love you not only a bf is necessary to get love and try to enjoy life.
if there is none to love you then you love other then you will be happpy
2006-10-13 23:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by sushma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is..we feeling so bad at that time..
2006-10-13 23:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by JackScenes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋