WHy is it that i have i don't know
about 20 guys that are awesome friends BUT I DON"T HAVE A BOY FRIEND???????
is it just my personality that i can't attract a guy, for me to be his gf????
like i can become friends with guys so easily and they say i am great and all, and they notice when i dress up, cuz usually i am in sweats.
but there is NOTHING ELSE JUST REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, its like i am one of the guys.
what in the world am i supposed to do to even get a bf?? never had one i have always been ONE of the guys.
ps- i am 19, and just to clarify i am not considered ugly by them.- just to clarify.
2006-10-13 16:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no don't play strip poker, or get drunk, i do homeowrk with them, lab partners go see movies etc........
also no i don't wear make up
2006-10-13 16:10:23 · update #1
Most likely there is nothing wrong with you at all. You're just not as attractive to boys as you would like. This again is normal, and makes up the majority of the population. (Including myself.)
To make yourself more appealing to men consider:
1. Wearing a bit of make up for the eyes, lips. Let you hair grow long and straight and look healthy.
2. Wear fashionable clothes, skirts are good. It is more important to look classy and feminine than to look sexy. If you dress to look sexy then people will think that you're a **** and stupid.
3. Be fun, witty, smart, and happy. People will want what you have.
4. Be interested in what guys are doing.
5. Attitude is 90% of the game. Be confident with yourself and who you are. Confidence is the sexiest part of your personality.
6. Pursue a personal interest that you can be passionate about. It will make you interesting.
These things will take a while to develop. Take them a step at time and expect changes over the next couple years.
2006-10-14 02:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K so when you dress up they NOTICE. But you normally wear sweats? Do you jog a lot or is this just for comfort? I love comfort too! But you can be comfortable and stylish at the same time. Just some jeans and a cute shirt would work. Woman like men who look good and men are the same. Sweats are for at home or the gym put a little style in your wardrobe to get their attention a bit more often.
2006-10-13 23:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try making yourself less available. There are better things in life then a boyfriend. When you stop looking that is when you will find a boyfriend. Seriously, I never really dated, and was in the same situation as you. When I stopped caring about things like that, my current boyfriend asked me out.
2006-10-13 23:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o k do you particapte in thier activites do you get drunk with them and play poker and do you dress somewhat like a tomboy ( i am not tryin to be offenseive just honest) If you do guy stuff with them they will see you as a guy. if you are pretty you need to magnify that do you where make-up but i am not telling you to change who you are just advising you to show them that you are sexy and if they play thier cards right they may just get some( im not specifcaly speaking of sex im refering to a realtionship)
2006-10-13 23:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me they all want you no matter what you say...but i wouldnt worry about not having a bf..why is it so important...when you meet a guy you want youll know what to do if you want him to be your man...especially if your pretty like you say
2006-10-13 23:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by san6153 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone you like and try flirting with the person...
2006-10-13 23:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey , your time will come
2006-10-13 23:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋