k there is this guy but hes really ugly and he told me he liked me but first u should no im 13 but anyway and i kinda like him but then i dont and i dont wanna go out with him but then i do i mean wat should i do?????
2006-10-13 15:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by lilybobo13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stick your gut feeling, that you are only 13 and not old enough to be dating ANYONE. You have plenty of time for that; if he really likes you, he'll wait until you're ready.
2006-10-13 15:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by ฿└ΛÇκ ĦΘŁỀ ŞЏП 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, First of all you have to think in which way you like him, if is like a friend.... then go out but let him know nicely that you just want to be friends.
if you like him for more than a friend then you shouldn't feel bad because he is not the most atractive person in the world as long as he respects you and gives you the place you deserve that is most important than just a pretty face.
and always remember that if you are honest with yourself then you can be honest with others
2006-10-13 22:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just damn bobo,,, at that age, you forget about boys and dating,,, you concentrate on your studies and when you are old enough and have a work of your own and earning your own money,,, you can buy all the guys you want to and all the guys you want to even if you won't buy them,,, they will just come running after you..
And when you are past 20 or 25 if you can wait that long,,, theyn you still have 60 years of life ahead of you to take all the boy friends you want... if you want to change them yearly... then that would mean 60 more boy friend in all.
What does it mean... study first and make sure you get a living for yourself,,. your boyfriend won't be feeding you for life... take my word for it..
2006-10-13 22:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know you think he's nice but you would just rather be friends right now. Then you can get to know him better. Since you are 13 there is no need to rush.
2006-10-13 22:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the reason you are not sure what you should do is because of the fact that you think he is ugly. well my dear, you are young now but as you get older you will come to realize that's not what you base your decisions on as to date or not date someone. so, for that reason i think you should not date this boy, you will end up hurting him, although you may not mean too.
2006-10-13 22:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about school! Seriously, dating comes full swing in collage, and the boys are cuter. Just say "no you are not ready to date" and enjoy the time with your girlfriends! :)
2006-10-13 22:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang out as friends first. If you truly believe you like him that much then you can top it up a notch and go out with him! =)
2006-10-13 22:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home & play with your Barbie. One day it will come to you, what to do, but don't be in any rush. Seriously, you have your whole life ahead of you to worry about boys.
2006-10-13 22:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first decide weather you like him or not and then do what you would like to be done to you .example if you dint like him or you dint want to go out with him be nice and tell him dint prolong it and lead him on to think that you like him when you dint ,so think about it but dint take to long and be hones and let him know where he stands with you good luck
2006-10-13 22:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by redants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him.....if you are not sure now then it probably won't work out. Just focus on friends and school!
2006-10-13 22:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋