Okay. here's the thing.... i am in 7th grade and i am going out w/ a guy in 8th. hes really cute and everything but i dont know wut to do... he's already said 'luv you' to me and we have been only going out for like an hour!!! He's already c/ed me baby and stuff like that. He told me to skip school on monday so we could do something... like he said to hang out. 'wut should i do?'
2006-10-13 15:35:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just turnes a 9th grader and i been trought that so im gonna try to tell u the best thing you can do.. When guys are in 8th grade the only think they think about is girls & "other things" (hope you get that). If you only been going out for a couple of hours and he said 'luv you' well it can be his just trying to get some or he actually likes you.. how to tell the difference? ask him questions about u on the phone. ask him why he likes you or hoe he really feels about u (((& most imporntantly DONT SKIP SCHOOL))) that will just meast up your future and no body wants that for you... just symply tell him that u can hang out friday on the weekend or after school theres no reason to skip skewl u have planty of time after or in the weekens but with this guy theres only 2 things that he probly feels 1st either he likesd u 4ever or 2nd his just playing & i hope his not playing w/u! so try to get info on him ask him question of u like wht he knows about u and why he likes u thats question that will really tell u how he really feels about u if he cannt tell u why he might just b playing. hope this works and remenber dont skip skewl that wil just b playing w/ur future + u dont want ur parents to find out and than get grounded for a dumb thing... good luck
_*Me*
2006-10-14 06:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by ijustknowit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go to school this guy isnt trying to hang out he is trying to hang something in you. This boy is moving to fast. Most boys his age have raging hormones. Some people fall in love at first sight so maybe he is on love. I doubt that he is but some guys seem to think that if they say they love you then you will sleep with them.I see nothing wrong with little cute nicknames for each other but sometime men use nicknames(baby) because they dont want to call you by the wrong name.
2006-10-13 22:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be really cute and everything, but he is not good for you. He is trying to take you down a bad path. Skipping school is a bad road for you to travel down. I know it sounds exciting and all at your age, but you will meet better guys as you get older and get over this crush. Good luck.
2006-10-13 22:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
warning!!! warning!!! this guy is trying to smooth talk you dear little one..he just wants one thing..at the age you are and the age he is..this is what guys do..please sweetie..don't do it..you are worth more then that..he will get what he wants and drop you like a hot pototoe..and then he will tell all his buddies. then you will regret what you did..and besides..you don't really know anything about him. he could really hurt you physcialy..please don't do it..tell him that you will not skip school with him..and that he doesn't even know what love is..and that him smooth talking you will not get you to do something that will make you feel bad..any boy that wants a girl to skip school and just hang out, is not thinking with his head, if you get my drift..as soon as you tell him this, watch what will happen, he will probally start on another girl with his playing..my grandaughter went threw this, and she knows now..she holds her head up with pride and they know not to mess with her..lol..blessing little one
2006-10-13 22:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w/e you do, do NOT cut school! is he a flirt? if he says he loves in an hour, he must be joking. don't trust someone who says that he loves you and call you endearments when it doesn't even seem like he means them! (which he doesn't b/c he said it so early!) tell him you don't want to skip class and if he ends up being all pissed off, then you know how much he means to you. if he understands, then i think there's still a chance with him. good luck!
2006-10-13 22:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by M.Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! LOL.
No, seriously. He wants to get in your pants. He's moving too fast. Tell him you will NOT skip school....that will get you in trouble on ALL levels.
Set boundries. Tell him you WILL NOT be sexually active with him. Tell him right up and front so he wont expect it later.
Keep those legs crossed hun, an STD or baby is NOT what you want in 7th grade!
2006-10-13 22:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't skip class for any boy. It's not worth it.
My wife & I had a baby by skipping class together. Everything turned out OK for us, & we had a healthy boy. But unless you are ready for that STAY IN SCHOOL!
2006-10-13 22:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't skip school, and kick him to the curb. If he really "loved" you, then he would not be trying to get you to do something that could get you both in trouble.
2006-10-13 22:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by LibraT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have only been going out for an HOUR.....oh no.....tell him this..." I AM SORRY, BUT I CAN'T MISS SCHOOL MONDAY BECAUSE I HAVE A TEST.."...now if he suggest another day...just say.."sorry, i can't go"...he should get the hint...you will both get in trouble for ditching if you do....tell one of your parents if you can talk to them...also...they may give you other suggestions...Or tell him straight out...'YOU KNOW WE WILL BOTH GET IN TROUBLE FOR DITCHING SCHOOL...AND I DO NOT WANT TO GET IN TROUBLE.." I HOPE THAT WORKS FOR you!!!
2006-10-13 22:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's moving way to fast not being the least bit sincere, more interested in seeing what he can get you to do.
Tell him to back off a little and slow down if he doesn't want to listen or pressures you get rid of him.
2006-10-13 22:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋