Ok, i'm dating this one guy, whos incredible. I love him dearly. But there is this other guy on the internet who i've known for 4-5 years now, who says he loves me and all that. He absolutly hates my bf (they talked once and it wasnt pretty, more like a war). Now he says he dosent want to talk to me anymore cause i dont feel the same way back. I love him like a freind, but that isnt enough for my freind. I dont want to lose this freind, but i love my bf. What do I do?
2006-10-13 15:35:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell the guy how u feel a/b the situation.
Let him kno that u want 2 keep the friendship & u luv him 2 but more lik a friend or a brother. Tell him that there is no romanic interest.
If he really luvs u he will understand.
2006-10-13 15:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by shanelle045 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell this friend how you feel. explain to him that you love you bf, but really cares about your friend too. tell him that if he can't accept it, then you would just have to give him up. he can't force you to choose between two people he really cares about and you don't need to choose. if your friend can't accept defeat or accept the fact that you and your bf are together then, he isn't much of a friend is he? talk to him and ifhe still forces you to choose, then it comes down to who's more important to you, which seems like your bf. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-13 22:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do whatever your internet friend asks you just to not hurt him anymore by having a bf. i mean, its easier to lose a friend than to break up with ur bf. also, it is realistic to love someone over the internet if you've never met him
2006-10-13 22:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the loved-boyfriend in this same type of situation.. and even though I probably should have stayed out of it, i told her its either him or me, because our phone bill was over 150 bucks because of him.. and he got mad at her..., so i told her to make up her mind..and she chose me, but talk to your boyfriend about it
2006-10-13 22:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by red77chevy350 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are causing your friend pain he can't deal with. You should respect his wishes and leave him alone. Leave the door open for him to return one day.
2006-10-13 22:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by cbay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, it clearly hurts him too much at this point in time, if you friendship is meant to be, then he'll contact you when he had time to process his feelings
2006-10-13 22:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋