I need sista (big sis advice)words to follow as guiedline. Boys like me cause of my Butt.and Im flat cheasted is that a problem .They also make fun.Sos
2006-10-13 15:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by nabila m 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
do massage your chest with evening primerose oil
2006-10-13 15:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no, you have nothing to worry about, you have plenty of time to grow in the upstairs department. Just so you know, whether you are flat chested or not, boys will make fun. thats just what boys do at this age. Its normal, even though its very annoying and embarrassing at times, but boys dont know any better, remember that girls mature faster so they still will act like little kids. the truth is that boys are shy around girls if they are by themselves most of the time, so to hide that, they instead make fun of a girl along with his friends so no one will know that. Everyone has to go through it, the only bad thing is that sometimes boys can say things that will hurt your feelings but just try not to let it bother you so much. One day things will be different :)
2006-10-13 15:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13 your body is still growing. Just give it time. And for those who make fun its their own insecurity that they have with their bodies. And they think that making fun of you will take the attention off of them. I know its not easy being 13. I was made fun of a lot in school when i was your age because i wasn't flat chested so i know somewhat how you feel. When you are older the people who make fun of you know wont even be around. I know its hard. But try to be comfortable who you are. It doesn't matter what others think.
2006-10-13 15:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsnickers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are girls out there that are "flat" and have no problem with it.. At 13 or 14 you may blossom late and be huge ,normal or itty bitty. look at your mom and that should give you a clue as to what you will have.
The real thing is that you are healthy .the reast is fluff
Beside the guys that are teasing you realy like you.
2006-10-13 15:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Robert F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I may not be a big sister (I am your age) but this is some advice. I know a lot of girls whose boobs aren't really there yet, but they are great girls and guys like them for that, not for how they look so much. If you start going out with guys who like you for your butt/looks, then sooner or later, your going to get yourself in some trouble. And your boobs will come sooner or later. I know because my sister was a really late bloomer and her boobs used to be pretty small, but now I guess they are bigger (well, she has a lot of padding in her bras). I myself got ,mine last year (in 6th grade, when i was 12) and my boobs are fine too, I just need better bras...No that you or anyone else needed to know that. Okay, good luck hun! bye!
2006-10-13 15:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by saasay0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not bad you will grow trust me i was sjut like you and aftr 13 going on 14 i ahd a huge gorwht spurt dont worry you will get one soon! good luck and honey dont worry about guys i have always worrieda dn now i am a freshman in hs and relizaed from guys they seriously dont care what you wear or if u are popular or not jsut be cool and relax...be your self. love ya!
2006-10-13 15:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by tif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad, your just slowly develping, you'll even out eventually. I'm 16 and still sorta flat chested, but got a big butt.
2006-10-13 15:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same problem! but my boobs grew im now 32d. give it time and wear push up bras
2006-10-13 15:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by beardedoctopus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me...juss giv it a lil more time...you wont be flat in like a couple months...trust me
2006-10-13 15:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry about it. Focus on what YOU love about yourself, not guys.
2006-10-13 15:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋