well this really nice guy he told me he liked me (me and him are friends) and he asked me out but i turned him down becuase im scared to start dating so i turned him down and now a month has passed and i dont think he likes me anymore and it makes me sad because just when i started liking him he stopped liking me (he acts different thats how i know) and now i want him to like me again but i wonder if you guys think i should move on and let us just be friends? and if you guys think i should get him back then what do i do ?
2006-10-13 15:21:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so why the change of heart? maybe he acts different towards you because some people don't know how to take rejection. if you really do like this guy then tell him, let him know the reason you turned him down before was because you were afraid to lose his friendship if things did not work out with you dating, also let him know that you made a mistake when you turned him down and that you would like a second chance. but, please make sure this is what you really want, that your not doing it just because you feel bad. you would hurt him more if you did that.
2006-10-13 15:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to need to WHOO the crap out of him! He probably still does like you but is wounded by the rejection.
Ask him out this time and if the conversation seems right -let him know that you want to take it slow since you are friends. i would leave out the "scared to date" because thats puts alot of pressure on a guy.
2006-10-13 22:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him back. What you said right now in your question, tell him. Let him know you were scared, but you really do like him. If he likes you, then he'll understand. You may have just hurt his feelings so he is leaving you alone. Tell him you're sorry and see what he says. Don't have any of your friends tell him though. That's kind of childish. Good luck!
2006-10-13 22:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys get hurt and they get really depressed if he won't keep trying and gave up already he was just infatuated and when you let him down his mind slowly convinced him your not that great that's how infatuation works with boys atleast
2006-10-13 22:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by BlueCherubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋