well my girlfriend is really honest and trustworthy but there is this other guy that likes her and always trys to flirt with her.i am not jealous its just i dont want her to start liking him i want her to stay with me we have been dating for 2 months and theres not alot we know about eachother so i want to know more about her but i dont want that guy to take her away from me what should i do.i want her to stay with me i dont want that guy to flirt with her and take her away from me what should i do.
2006-10-13 15:19:45 · 20 answers · asked by bloo b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked her if she likes him she said no but i dont want her to start to.and if i say back off to him that would be rude.
2006-10-13 15:24:09 · update #1
i really like her she is hot.i mean i known her for 2 years but i mean in commen . we dont have that many things in commen so we have something to talk about.i really like her we always have fun on dates and were always together she just isnt my GF she is also my best friend.
2006-10-13 15:27:24 · update #2
If you're worried that her heart may wander towards him, you need to build up some confidence! Show her why she would rather be with you! If you just be yourself and have as much fun as you can with her, she'll ignore the guy on her own. A little jealousy is good, too much is irritating. If the guy keeps persisting, tell him to back off. You don't have to get into a fight but make your stance clear. Do it in front of her if possible. A girl likes to know that she's valued enough to have her guy be protective of her.
2006-10-13 15:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Feelin' Froggy~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between being friendly and flirting. I am engaged and I live with my fiance. From the past to present (not to sound conceited) I have been told how pretty/attractive I am in my face and with my figure. Several guys try to flirt with me if I'm jogging down the neighborhood and if my fiance is not in sight. I am friendly meaning i speak back when spoken to or i might even greet the person first, but I do not flirt with them. Some people believe in "harmless" flirting but i see no reason to flirt at all: Personally I think it's disrespectful If you are committed to someone because the point of flirting is to send an "Im interested" message. I think you should find a way to bring that guy up in a conversation, then tell her that you don't care if she's friendly with people but if guys flirt with her (which they will if she's attractive) AND she returns the flirtation--you feel uncomfortable with that. Tell her that you really like her and want things to last.
2006-10-13 22:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago, I dated a guy who was very good-looking with a great personality, and he attracted a LOT of female attention. I was bitter about this at first, always looking over my shoulder thinking, "Is she the one that's going to take him away from me?" Then I realized something: These situations should be taken as compliments, not insults! Just because someone else is after your girlfriend, doesn't necessarily mean she's going to run off with him. This just proves you have a great catch! She obviously must have something going for her.. Take pride in the fact that you have a desireable girlfriend!
Though.. if the situation gets too out-of-hand, you might want to talk to her about it. Sometimes people don't realize that they're going over the line.. because "the line" is different for everyone.
2006-10-13 22:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by [we're all mad here] 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good idea would be to take her out to lunch or something. Do things together so you can get to know each other better. If she likes you, then there is no need to worry about the other guy. Another thing you could do is compliment her on the things others may not....ex....her hair, she smells nice. things like that.
-I wish you two the best of luck!!
2006-10-13 22:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone's a little possesive No i'm just teasing, just ask her if she really likes the other guy better and if she does let her go u don't want to be with sumone who doesn't like u for keeping her just give her a big hug and say i love uuuu everyone likes hugs
2006-10-13 22:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by good advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the same thing you told us......if she really wants to be with you she will stay....treat her the way you want to be treated!!! You cannot make up her mind for her but you can be a great boyfriend in the mean time!!!!
2006-10-13 22:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can pull a shakespeare night on her, throw rose petals all over the place and totally kiss her brains out!!!! wooooo her like theres no other guy on earth but you..... and then say, hmmm i want to make this a memorable Christmas for the both of us!
she'll melt!!!!!! wont go anywhere!!!! but in your arms
2006-10-13 22:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said she's honest and trustworthy. then you have to forget it.
You can tell him to back off and NOW. as for her , she's not asking for it, so just treat her right and you shouldn't have to worry about it.
2006-10-13 22:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the guy and tell him to leave her alone to stop flirting with her tell him to show some respect because your dating her and if doesn't stop break his nose and he'll stay away from her
2006-10-13 22:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by *Cherrytop* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just calm down and treat her good if she likes u she will be with only you and if she dont like who u really r then why would u want to be with her for anyway
2006-10-13 23:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋