etc. I think the people who are asking these kinds of questions just don't understand that all you have to do is to be yourself. Being a guy I can say that guys don't look for anything particular in girls, it's kind of a weird feeling like when you're in love you are so totally absorbed into someone else you don't think about what exactly you like about them. Hmmm...hope that made sense. Anyway, I'm just really annoyed by people asking what the other sex thinks of them and what characteristics are desired by the opposite sex. It's just not that simple you know! Does anyone else feel likewise?
2006-10-13 15:17:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well said.......nothing more to add.
2006-10-13 15:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but may I also add that the people asking these question are probably teenagers who are trying to work out life...so even though to us oldies it seems trivial, I think you need to think back to when you were first discovering the opposite sex and your own sexuality and how bloody confusing it was...
Good Question
PS...I just wish some would write in english and not that slang that I cant understand...tee hee Jesus I'm getting old
2006-10-13 22:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with you both male and female now a days walk around trying to do things ,say things and even wear things that they think will make the opposite sex like them but what they need to realize is that one a person should love you for who you are and two if you try to be what some one wants you to be you wont be happy And three in the end its real stress you know i mean how long can you pretend for . my mom always say familiarity breads content so when you put on the act and you begin to get comfortable with the person all our true colors comes out and there were the problems starts , so to all you out there be true to your self ,be cool and if you don't like who you are and decide to change do it for you not to please anyone love the skin your in. bless
2006-10-13 22:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by redants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Jumps up and down waving hands* Yes, Yes I completely understand. Just so much in here with people going what do I do. Why not just do something? Anything. The one that drives me nuts is "How to make them talk to me?" Why not talk to them, ask them out, why should the other person be the one to do things. *sighs* I could go on and on. Glad to see someone else feeling the same way.
2006-10-13 22:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by prophacyks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well pretty sure i feel the same as you...ive like a guy for about 3 years...i tried my best to get him to like me by trying to look perfect everyday i even went as far as missing school if i didnt look that great that day..when i talked to him i couldnt seem to be myself cauz i didnt think that would be"good enough" for him...then the summer came and all this stuff happened to me and i realized that someone is only going to love you if your just being yourself. well i decided to be myself around him..and guess what...he still doesnt like me! haha but thats not the point..soo many other things have gotten so much better in my life and i know i willmeet the right person soon.
so just keep doin what your doin and be yourself!:)
2006-10-13 22:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the people who ask these questions are little kids. They don't know that there is no answer that tells you what ALL guys or girls like. We are all individuals with different tastes. Think about it, kids.
2006-10-13 22:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy for someone that has a running car to say:"just turn the key and go" But some people have a car that won't start, and they are asking "what do I do?" Get my point?
2006-10-13 22:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, way to go! I'm with you all the way on this one for sure, glad you posted it :)
most are like 10 - 12 year olds that post those questions.
2006-10-13 22:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I soooo agree! Some questions are so obvious I don't understand why they get asked. Like "I like so and so what do I say"? Hello big red truck what do you THINK you should say?
2006-10-13 22:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly right I think the one part is more along the lines of infatuation love does take some work and overcoming problems
2006-10-13 22:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by BlueCherubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
word up. People just can't let go of the illusion that they can control someone else.
2006-10-13 22:20:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋