I'm not exactly sure what my girlfriend is feeling these days. I have my days where I feel like she does care, and days where she doesn't. I want to ask her "Are you happy being in this relationship?" but I'm not sure if this will help the situation and have us bring out whats going on, or hurt the situation and have her automatically think I want out. What do you say?
2006-10-13 15:11:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should ask her if she's happy because if she's not then you are both wasting your time with the relationship. Just ask her when she's not acting very happy if there's anything she'd like to talk about.
2006-10-13 15:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is that you need to be up front and honest but not in a offensive way and you should ask her. This will definitly help the situation because you are addressing that there is something bothering her and if there is she needs to open up and tell you or she will not be happy which will make you unhappy because In order to fix the problem you have to know what it is.You will know where she stands and if there is anything you can do to help. Tell her how you feel and be open. One of the main keys in a realtionship is communication. Good luck
2006-10-13 15:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by louise23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest above all. You should go ahead and ask her if she is happy. Tell her you don't want to break up or anything, you just feel like she has been distant from you and you want honesty in the relationship. Let her know if there is ever a problem, it is safe for her to talk to you. However, if she is cheating on you, then you need to leave her straight out or she will think she can continue to treat you bad and you will still accept her. Please don't trap yourself that way. It's not healthy mentally or emotionally. Good luck!
2006-10-13 15:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
issues are the very similar between my boyfriend and me. I cry day and nighttime. I burst into tears at the same time as i'm walking down the line. Is there something incorrect with me ? No . i imagine crying helps relieve the discomfort, each and every of the pent up thoughts come out .. don't be sorry that you cried. this is advantageous. perhaps you'll damage-up, perhaps you'd be mutually always. yet no man or woman ever is familiar with for particular. All i visit claim is life's too short, please locate happiness .. it would want to seem a basic on the a concepts end of the tunnel, flow in course of it. Being satisfied is all that concerns, no count number what it takes
2016-12-04 19:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should preface your question with open and honest communication from you. Tell her that you love being with her and that you want to always be honest with each other and be able to talk about everything, anything. Tell her that you've noticed something different about the way she is around you lately. Then ask her if there's anything that's on her mind... something that's concerning her or distancing her from you. That if there is an issue, you want to work it through with her so that she'll always be as happy and comfortable in your relationship as you are.
Just a suggestion. =)
2006-10-13 15:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Suzuki_Mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you told us. We all feel that way sometimes whether we are in a relationship or not. What you need to do is ask her after you get off your computer and thought about what everyone has said to you.....What kind of "situation" are the two of you in?
2006-10-13 15:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you really love her and you have noticed that she seems a little distand at times and ask her if everything is ok. Maybe ask her if there is something you have done or something your not doing that has upset her. That should help start your conversation anyway. Later you can get to the Do I make you happy question. Good Luck
2006-10-13 15:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her why you are asking the question. If you preface the thought, she wont automatically think you want out. Consider it routine maintenance like getting an oil change for your car...it is healthy for a relationship to get a status check.
2006-10-13 15:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to sit and have a heart to heart. Tell her some days everything seems to be going great and others not so great. Tell her how you feel about her. Let her know you are not trying to get out of the relationship, you just want to make it stronger. maybe she has something weighing heavily on her and she just doesn't know what to do...
2006-10-13 15:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by kcastillo1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sort of question is really hard to answer.
Especially if she's not sure what's wrong, if anything is.
She's likely to avoid the issue and say, "yes," even if she's not.
Either she's happy, or she isn't.
Either she wants out, or she doesn't.
What can you do?
Show her you love her.
Be patient with her.
Do little things to please her.
Time will tell, even if she can't.
Try not to dwell on or call attention to her behavior.
Is it easy? Not at all. But try.
Maybe that will help the two of you figure out what is wrong.
Maybe it will help you to learn how to communicate, to trust.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 15:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋