ok so my parents took away my cell fone and housefone privlages wat should i do to get them bak...im 14 and they dont even trust me...god
2006-10-13 15:06:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're not gonna want to hear this, but they probably did it for your own good. So take the lesson and learn from it. Believe me in 10 years you will be grateful that you have parents who cared enough to protect and/or restrict you from things. If you do something to get back at them, then how do expect them to trust you. Just take you punishment in stride and the trust will come.
2006-10-13 15:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that Your Parents love You, and yes believe it or not, they want what is best for You. You need to learn that You can earn more things and time, than You can ever attempt to steal. Getting back at them is not only sad, but will only make matters worse. I am surprised at the answers, and very impressed. You have to realize the volumes of questions that are posted on Yahoo every minute, so it almost seems like fate when certain, almost chosen People, answer Your question...
Just something to think about. Be good, and things will change, and You might just find that You like things better this way.
God Bless
2006-10-13 15:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they must have taken it away for real good reason then maybe you talk on the phone to much i guess..my suggestions have them get you a pay as you go phone and you buy the minutes yourself....i have a tracphone..because i don't use it that much at all ...ad for trust they will when you start to show some more responsability..do extra chores around the house.and don't question this for about a week and maybe they will give your privlage back to you
2006-10-13 15:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre not alone. My 18 year old son lost his cellphone privilege when he ran up a $400 bill.
Start showing that you are a responsible young adult. Get good grades, do your chores, and do something unexpected for the family like help fix the yard or help with the laundry. Start doing those kinds of things and youll get your phone back quicker.
2006-10-13 15:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda know what you mean.. i go throug that all the time, just be good, do ur chores, all ur work, and after 3 days or so sit down and talk to them! theres nothing wrong on talking.. 1st egin on what did u do, than what u can do next time to not be bad and apoligize THAT THE MAIN THING! than just b reall with them and trust m after u talk to them they will b suprise and give ur fone privalaes back
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-13 15:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by ijustknowit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do as they ask. It will take alot to build their trust if you have broken it. I know its hard to do sometimes but give it a try. They just want the best for you and stop and think about it if they just let you do what you wanted to do then they couldn't love you very much. So be glad that they care so much.
2006-10-13 15:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you gave them a reason to not trust you?..
It's impossible to tell you how to get phone privileges back. I don't know what you did to lose them.. and I don't know how lenient your parents are. I know this seems "unfair" at the time being, but you will understand when you have children of your own.
2006-10-13 15:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by [we're all mad here] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why these priviledges were revoked. Take a good long look at yourself, and be honest. Then take steps to correct the situation. Trust and respect have to be earned.
2006-10-14 05:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is probably a good reason why your parents took your phone privileges. what should you do? ask your parents the same question. parents say they can never trust you but they will as soon as they forget what it is you've done wrong.
2006-10-13 15:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey i dont trust my son either he 14 too get better grades and have a good attitude
2006-10-13 15:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋