huh?! what ever happened to good old fashioned things like
heart and loyalty? huh? even personality?
2006-10-13 15:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not true... at least it's not true for all women. I married my husband because I lobe him. He doesn't have any money and is over weight... but he's perfect to me!
2006-10-13 15:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by eeeeeeeeclipse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know about the money thing, perhaps thats a security or selfish thing? Not sure though...However, when you say looks, obviously a person needs to be physically attracted to someone on some level or their relationship is nothing more then platonic. Everyone has different standards and likes different asthetic features so I think you may be generalizing just a bit. Perhaps ur standards for what you are looking for are a little to high by judging only the women who go after the guys you see as having good looks and money. But hey to each their own. Stop focusing on everyone else and start focusing on yourself...Im sure if you stop being superficial (and Im sorry you def are), you will find someone who likes you for you. Why would you care about chicks that go after how much cash is in the pockets anyway? Is that what you really want?
2006-10-13 15:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
biologically the female is always looking for the best provider. He has to provide and have time to have extra, like the best feathers, or biggest mane, or best car etc. It's all about who's going to be the best dad even if we aren't thinking about that at the time. males however just need to spread around their DNA. They aren't necessarily looking for a long time thing, just a sure thing. So human men often look to the sleazy. For example, compare the strip bars of the human animal, women's to men. First of all, there aren't many strip bars for women and the ones out there, although they might be tasteless for some, aren't sleazy. Men's however...well, I don't think I need to go on. I know that all men don't look for sleazy women, but then all women don't just look at a guys bank account. However, it's a good study isn't it?
2016-05-22 00:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know a lot of broke ugly dudes with girls, so that is not true. Heart and loyalty are not something that a woman can see right away, but they can see a lack of confidence which you are displaying here.
2006-10-13 15:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most women are looking for excitement. Looks and money signify that there's some excitement there. With a little work, any guy can be exciting. Think of the ways you can provide excitement to a woman, and you'll have women flocking to you, regardless of your looks or money.
See the movie "Hitch" for more on this topic.
2006-10-14 02:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
personality isn't usually our first impression. It's sex appeal(not exactly looks) if you are confident and charming, you can pretty much get any girl in the room. Do you really want a woman who is shallow and wants all your money, those girls wouldn't make you happy anyways.Stay strong.
2006-10-13 15:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never went for looks or money. It's the personality that hooked me.
2006-10-13 15:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on dude you mean to tell me you've never seen a real hottie on the arm of an ugly fat dude, it's called self confidence.
2006-10-13 15:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by boxer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DUH!! Just like a man wants a beautiful woman!! It's like this: You look good, I look good. It's great to have something beautiful! Also there is very few nice guys, and it would suck to be with an ugly broke nice guy!!
2006-10-13 15:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by emily_68502 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because there are some girls who are now more interested in greed instead of love, and romantism just like it was before.
2006-10-13 15:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋