i like my guy friend but he has a gf, should i tell him i like him and see wat happens?

Question

My guy friend & me talk all the time, and in our class we flirt a bunch.. ppl actually think were going out.. our teacher always keeps telling us to stop flirting & pay attetion.. we talk on the phone pretty much everyday and we can talk about anythign we laugh all the time but we never tlak about his gf i feel ackward when we do and if we do he compares me to her.. i really like him and i wish he would breack up w/his gf, should i tell him i like him or what should i do??? HELP

ok well i already added detail but ppl were taking it the worng way so here it goes AGAIN.. i really like him and we talk all the time pretty much about anythign that comes up we laugh all the time and he always does what i sya its wierd lol but his gf shes nice a& everything but they bearly even talk I DO THINK HOW I WILL FELL IF I WAS IN HER SHOES but i cannt help it.. sometimes ill stay up at night thinking baout him, ppl think we are going out cause we are together all the time & we flirt way to much.. his gf knows im his friend & lately she has been giving me bad look i dont blame her though.. but i just wanna know what can i do to put thing in oder i have asked her if he really likes her he siads yes i guess & i meat his parents they are adorble & they reallylike m i hear them sya it when im on the fone.. i just wanna know if i should tell him i like him but im afraid cause what happens if he liks his gf alot & his just playing with me?? help

Answer 1

I'm in the same prositon you are, but i sadly, knows that there is no hope for me and my guy friend. you, however, should take the initiative. i'm not saying go right ahead and tell him your feelings, but take things slow. first, look at how close the guy and gf are. if they're extremely close, you need to turn around and bury the feelings for him. if they're kind of like an unofficial dating couple, then still take things slow. try to fidure out how he feels about you w/o revealing your feelings for him. don't make a move on him before you find out if he and his gf are steady though! you don't want to feel bad when you're mistaken as the "other woman." GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

This man is your friend plain and simple. I am sure you want more but he has a girlfriend. Did you ever think that the reason he doesnt talk about his girlfriend is because it makes you feel awkward? He is still being a friend. If this guy wanted to be with you he could end things with his girlfriend but he hasnt. You need to move on and find someone that doesnt have a girlfriend. You dont have a hard time talking to guys so this should be easy. I dont think that either of you took the time to see how this might make his girlfriend feel if she found out you were flirting and talking all the time. Now if he gets with you what makes you think that he wouldnt do the same thing?

Answer 3

I would usually tell you to leave her boyfriend alone and respect their relationship as you would want somebody to respect yours. However, I'm going to say this: Tell him you like him (though I think he has some clues). But let him know you wont be his side toy (though you apparently already are in a way.) If he breaks up with her for you, You will have what you wanted. But if he tells you he likes/loves her and will not break up with her, then he has made his choice (and you were just a friend he harmlessly flirts with for fun and laughs) so you just move along and find somebody who is available for you... okay sweety.

Answer 4

I am in the same situation with someone that lives in a different state people have not been giving me good feedback so I'll try my hardest. others have told me to leave him alone and find another guy. that's not what i wanted to hear and you probably don't want that either so. tell him. tell him you have feelings for him and see what happens. see if he has the same feeling if he doesn't tell him hes sending you mixed messages. maybe not talk to him so much so you don't get attached. if he does have feeling you wont know unless you say something because he if safe because he has a girlfriend but maybe he does like you and maybe wants to be with you but doesn't want to be left alone if he dumps this other girl and you don't like him. say something to him!!!!! I hope this helps.

Answer 5

Yah cause as soon as he dumps her and goes with you, he becomes friends with another girl and BOOM you are out of the picture. If he does that to her, what makes him think he won't leave you for another girl eventually. And when y'all are together, what's to keep him from flirting with all these other girl "friends" while in a relationship??

All you will look like is a "man-stealer" although I highly doubt any real MEN are involved here.

Answer 6

You should move on. He does not feel for you the attraction he does for his GF. You will continue to hurt so move on and see someone else. Maybe someday things will change but don't put your life on holos fir it. Find another. Can't make someone love you.

Answer 7

Wishing ill on another person is not a good way to go about life, in this case hoping he dumps her. Think about this, if you jump in and break it up, you are giving him a permission slip to cheat on you if you end up with him. Do you want that? Just lay low and if he becomes availiable go for it.

Answer 8

I would just wait it out because he may be just sending you mixed signals. I was pretty much in the same position as you. You just have to be patient, and wait it out. Why ruin a good friendship?

Answer 9

u see what the problem is ?
the problem is u think u can't get him....but all u gotta do is secude him. all men are weak in some ways, u just gotta find his weak spots. then seduce him away from the current gf.
if u wish...if u wait. he might never break up with her. u got it?
u have to make it happen!
good luck.
gimme 10 points ? please ? please? thanks.

Answer 10

give him some time and maybe he'll end up liking you and he'll break up with his gf to be with you. if he doesn't, ask him out, if he says no, then just tell him "i was kidding."