me and my childs father is not together and he has another girlfriend how would i know he still has feelings?

Question

he always comes over my house hugging and kissings on me.

Answer 1

He does it because you allow him too. He is taking advantage of the fact that you may still have feelings for him. My son's father and I are no longer together. In spite of having lived together for over a year, when he comes to visit, I don't allow him to cross my threshold into the house. I am not going to send mixed messages, nor do I want to give him the opportunity to give me any. It works for everyone. He gets to spend time with his son. My son gets time with his dad, and I don't have to deal with him anymore than I want.

Answer 2

It seems that niether of u have let go, he wants his cake, icing and the ice cream too. He seems to have moved on somewhat, why don't u or stop hurting the other woman who really is the victim here because I'm sure she has no idea that her man is still hugging and kissing his ex. How would u feel if the shoe was on ur foot and u were getting SLOPPY seconds. Make a decision and stick to it if he wants to visit with his child let him visit with the child and u take advantage and go out for a few hours or allow him to take the child without any physical contact with u. Unless like I said u still want him and haven't let go.

Answer 3

tell him to stop hugging and kissing you. show him you no loger share those feelings, (even if you do) when he sees this, he will reveal to you whether or not he does have feelings for you. if he has another girlfriend and you are letting him hug and kiss on you, he feels as if he can have you anytime he wants you. kinda like a backup plan. if he does not have feelings, lose him. there are good guys out there. i am a single male parent 21 years old with custody of my 3 year old daughter. she is my number one priority, thats why i am single and i have never been happier. love your child, dont waste your time on some guy who isnt worth it. best of luck to you.

PRAY

Answer 4

If you are not together any longer and this is a discomfort to you, you need to tell him to stop. You also need to talk to him about boundaries when it comes to your son. You don't want your son to think this type of behavior is appropriate. I would talk to your ex and explain to him that you don't mind that he has other relationships. That you would prefer he not introduce your (our) son to anyone unless its been a period of time. This way your son is not exposed to people whom have no meaning real meaning to his life in the places he calls home. Make sure you abide by the same thing.
In my home as a single mother of 3, no one is allowed into my home unless they are a friend. No boyfriends unless its serious or my children are not home. I feel this is the only place that is theirs and it needs to be protected and safe for them.
My ex's (2) of them go by the same thing.
Good Luck

Answer 5

He may think alot of you, you are the mother of his child. But if he has another girlfriend then he is not interested in you as a partner. Be happy you get along with him and he loves his child, but look for love somewhere else.

Answer 6

You are not together anymore??? Tell him to stop hugging and kissing on you , unless you want him too, he is just playing you for a fool, he wants his cake and he is going to eat it too if you let him...he sounds like a real ***...tell him to go home to his current girlfriend

Answer 7

Been there done that, its more confusing for your child than you will ever realize until its to late. Put a stop to it before you child gets emotionally damaged, if you want to know if he has feelings for you ask him, but not in front of your child.

Answer 8

Are you specific those emotions are being noted because of fact of your son, or because of fact your ex is in touch with yet another female?.... i understand that is tough seeing him with somebody else, perhaps somebody who's lots diverse than you. i understand i could in all probability sense the comparable way if I have been on your shoes, or a minimum of for a on the same time as. except you bought it at once from the pony's mouth, i would not say what she is or isn't saying with regard to her parenting or 'attempting' to parent your son. the main you're able to do is attempt to talk to her lower back and spot the place you men stand from there. that is perplexing to enable pass, fairly of somebody you have been as quickly as with and not basically that, yet have a toddler with, yet who knows, this female must be 'the only'....this female must be somebody who sticks around for a on the same time as, yet then they ruin up, you on no account understand. You sounded a splash controlling and injury on your info, yet perhaps you need to in simple terms take a step lower back and say, "properly, i understand for me that may no longer proper and that i do no longer understand what's going to take place, yet I must be a reliable individual and supply this female a shot. that is perplexing, yet I must be a reliable individual"....in simple terms provide her a huge gamble. i would not challenge lots approximately her except she become heavily putting your toddler in threat. could you nevertheless sense the comparable way in case you had somebody else on your existence too, however?

Answer 9

DONT LET HIM TOUCH YOU. WHEN HE GETS THE CHILD, HAVE SOMEONE ELSE WITH YOU. IF HE TOUCHES YOU, LET HIS GF KNOW AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A WITNESS. IF YOU HAVENT STOPPED HIM YET, YOU MUST STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM-WHICH IS CONFUSING TO THE CHILD.
ALWAYS THINK ABOUT THE CHILD.
IF ALL ELSE FAILS, GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST HIM.

Answer 10

Hmmm, a good place to start would be if he had married you before making babies with you and if he DIDN'T have a girlfriend.