ok i meet a guy that i am in love with but i sometimes feel like i am just a rebound bc of him and his wife splitting up. I mean he says he loves me and acts like it but when his kids are around he dont even kiss me and he act like hed rather not be here unless its at night and its on his watch
2006-10-13 14:52:05 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The kid thing has nothing to do with his feelings for you, hon. I've had exactly the same exp. He only does this because he feels bad about leaving them, doesn't want to confuse or disappoint them with someone new, and with a new love, is only protecting them from further hurt, OK? everybody loses in a divorce. Your time will come. With kids, thier Mom is the only woman in thier lives who is with dad, so be patient, understand, and if you love him, let him know this, it will bring you closer, and take the pressure off him. He knows he does this, just doesn't know how to explain it .....NOw he won't have to.....R, a good dad. Ooops! I take all of it back. I just read your ques. on next page. Sorry, this answer was meant for good girls, you, obviously are a selfish, AAAhhh, I'm not wasting any more time on you.
2006-10-13 15:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Raptor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels unconfortable around his kids with you. He doesn;t want them to feel unconfrotable as well. I broke up with my bf recentrly who I loved a lot and met another guy. I got to confess, I sometimes feel that he's a rebound guy, but he's so nice and sweet that I'm really staring to fall for him and thinking less about my ex. My guess is he really likes you. Maybe ask him how he feels if he's not sure.
2006-10-13 21:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by maya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i got to admit it ur his mistress.. and i'm sure ur old enough to know that.. 1st of all he's legally still married.. so yup ur his mistress, the sidechick, the dummy...
u should've waited for his divorce to become legal before u started seeing him cause now u don't even know if they'll get back together or if he'll decide to stay w/u.. people need time to heal after something like that and right now ur just his right now... u'll never be his future...
2006-10-13 21:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm...maybe his wife and kids don't know about you....or he's down playing your relationship with him to them.
He's definately not into you as much as you are into him. You're already hurt and it's going to get much worse so I wouldn't invest your heart into it.
2006-10-13 21:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by __Shele 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋