ok i meet a guy that i am in love with but i sometimes feel like i am just a rebound bc of him and his wife splitting up. I mean he says he loves me and acts like it but when his kids are around he dont even kiss me and he act like hed rather not be here unless its at night and its on his watch
2006-10-13 14:51:39 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it has anything to do with you. I think he's sparing his kid's feelings. It's hard on kids seeing their parents with someone else. It takes time for them to adjust and I sense he see's that.
2006-10-13 14:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's with you, he likes you. And if you brought you around his kids, that means he's more serious then you think.
In my dating world we never bring the kids around until maybe 6 mo have passed of our dating. Cause we want to share the kids with our new loved one. If he acts casual around the kids while you're their...probably cause parents have to behave appropriately and set a good example in front of the kids. I do the same thing, i have kids, he has kids....we dont even kiss in front of the kids yet. Parents are always checking the watch, its not you personal but you have been invited to share in his family time so you are lucky, that takes a long time for some of us gals to acheive!!!! Be happy and be his partner cause he needs you there for him... Good luck
2006-10-13 21:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does that because it will be hard on the kids to see their father with another women so soon. Just take it slow and guard your heart. I know you say you are already in love but if anything seems to good to be true stop and take some space. The think with the kids is him just being respectful and concerned about their feelings. Don't worry if it's meant to be it will be.
2006-10-13 21:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ebony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably thinks it's in poor taste to be kissing you in front of his kids. They are, after all, still recuperating from the idea of the divorce.
2006-10-13 22:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his kids r used 2 him being with their mom and he knows that --give him time if you want this 2 work and besides you said he is not yet divorced well wait till ink dries on paper sweetie lol
2006-10-13 21:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by M S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
out of respect for the kids, and their feelings,, it is kind of rude to kiss another woman beside their mom in front of them.
2006-10-13 21:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds exactly like a relationship i had a few months ago.
rebounds never work sweet heart cut your losses now.
2006-10-13 21:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow your heart
2006-10-13 21:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋