Okay, Ive been friends with this guy named Zach since like the eigth grade and I really really like him and Ive already went out with him once but then I broke up with him because hes not the cutest thing in the world...but hes so sweet to me and I know he really really likes me to but I want to go back out with him but im worryed about people making fun of me what do I do? should I ask zach out???? or should I just listen to everybody else and just stay friends with him??? my friends like zach but all the preps, football players and whors dont like him they all make fun of him because he smokes weed....so what do i do?????????
2006-10-13 14:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Stay away, do not get with anyone who smokes weed.
2006-10-13 14:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok so one strike, he smokes weed. Not good , but there is worse. To be honost. Most of those preps, football players and whores are probably doing worse, that is how it was when I was in HS any way. So are you a whore? If not why not be yourself. if you can figure out how to not care about what other's think now, you will be way better off in a couple of yrs/
2006-10-13 22:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by tera_duke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your own judgement, if he makes you happy be with him. Weed is not good, but almost everyone smoked weed at one time or another. Some quit, some didn't. Just don't let his choices affect your personal morals or values. Who cares about "school status" It doesn't matter in the end.
2006-10-13 22:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by manicschematic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you care what others say, or would you prefer to follow your heart? If you can answer that question to yourself honestly, then you'll have your answer.
To illustrate my point, I was dating two or three different girls and trying to decide which one I'd like to really become romantically involved with. One was skinny and pretty, and fun to be with, but inside she had a mean streak that reared it's ugly head on occasion when things didn't quite go her way. The next girl thought she was all it, and lived her life that way, and treated others like they were inferior and not the right class for her, if you can catch my drift. I felt like a piece of meat on display for her pleasure and use. The third girl was fat, not exceptionally pretty, but inside she had a good heart and I loved to be around her the most, because she was always smiling and happy and fun to be with. Of course all my friends were telling me to hook up with the prettiest one, but despite everything that they said, I chose to follow my heart and be with the one with the good heart, yes the fat girl!
I've never regretted it! I asked her to marry me, and we're happily married with 5 children and one grandchild, with 2 more on the way. I chose to look at who I thought would truly love me and paid no attention to what was on the outside or to what my friends said I should do. The beauty she has in her heart and in her soul outshines any physical "deficiencies" she has.
Look to the inside and ignore what others tell you is my advice!
2006-10-13 22:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him again, ask him out! Don't let others get in the way of what you know you really want to do. If you really didn't want to ask him out, you wouldn't be asking this question on here. Your mind would have been already made up. Get off the computer, and get on that phone. Call him now! Good luck.
2006-10-13 22:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to, if you think it is right do it if not don't do it. You should really make the decicion yourself. Sorry Hope it helps.
2006-10-13 22:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by allison 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋