was this party that i was goin 2 and it was really cold out and she wanted me 2 wear this really ugly long sleeve shirt which i refused 2 wear. my friend and her friend (who i dont like that much) came 2 get me and i had 2 be all like my mom isnt letting me go. they were like please just get in the car and well drve away but i didnt. so i went back inside and i went up 2 my room and was like 2 my mom u can return all the clthes u just bought me. and she was really mad. and then she was like if ur goin 2 be a ***** u can just go 2 ur room. i did. wen i was up there i was just sitting there and thinking about how mch i hate her and how mean she is. she then came up 2 my rm and was like wats ur issue and i no u hav 1 r u wouldnt be cryin. i told nothin and just go away. she did. then i thought how i just wanna be out of her and away fro her so i went for a walk and just cried. now im here and wat should i do???
2006-10-13 14:41:38 · 11 answers · asked by footballmike500 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
treat your mom with respect and learn some english
2006-10-13 14:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is all really stupid. You say you didn't like the shirt your Mom got you--and then you say she wouldn't let you go out. Are you saying if you had worn the shirt you could have gone to the party? That seems unlikely. I think you got into with your mother uneccessarily. Besides you were really stupid if that was the case to give up a night out simply cuz you would not wear the shirt.
Perhaps your mother is being unreasonable--I can't be sure. But there is no question you are being a brat.
Apologize--and then work something out with the clothes. Your Mom bought you some clothes--even though you may not care for them--this does not mean she hates you.
Start being a little more respectful. I am not certain what your age is. But in my house there is a pretty good chance with an attitude like you have you would be getting a paddling. So count yourself lucky.
2006-10-13 18:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I been in some situations like that. Even as an adult, my mom and I disagree with eachother a lot.
In a situation like that, try to respect it, but see if there is another solution.
I don't think she wanted you to wear that because it was cold. I think maybe she wanted you to cover up a bit more, if you were exposing a lot of skin. After all, you are her daughter and she will try to be protective like that.
If it was the "cold" issue, could of suggested if you could pick out something else from your clothes or from her clothes that seemed reasonable as you honestly dislike the shirt. You gave another option, instead of doing the "my way or highway" attitude, as your mother reacted on.
I learned a few things as a teen. That is one of them. Find another solution rather than colliding than trying to equal it.
I don't understand why you didn't wear it and just take it off to the party or at the party???
Never make a problem when there is no need to warrent one. All you had to do was wear it and take it off when you wanted OR wore a jacket if cold and then donate the shirt.
She bought you these clothes and need to appreciate the clothes on your back is from her expense. With out her, you would either be borrowing clothes from other people or getting a job to pay for it all. I recommend appreciating it.
If she buys you things that you don't like, make a truce to pick clothes out together.
I don't know if you are upset about just this situation or if this is a repeated pattern. I do recommend seeing a youth counselor and possibly bringing up a family counselor to your mom.
When she asks you what is your issue, take a breathe and explain to her the issue. I sometimes say "nothing" and really wish I could just flat out say it. Now, I am starting to so I can lay it on the line where we can solve it than keep it going. If don't communicate, the issue won't be solved.
2006-10-13 17:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun,you must respect your mother.I know that sometimes what she wants you to do isnt what you want to do.You always must remember,even at those times that she is doing it for your benefit and well-being.You do not hate your mother,you need to go give her a hug and apologise.Your mother wont always be there when you need her,embrace her while you have the time and appreciate the fact that you have a mother that cares for you and wants the best for you.Appreciate the fact that she takes the time to buy you clothing,and cares enough to want you to be warm.She cares,and she wants what is best for you.There will be a time when you look back and you would give just about everything that you own to have your mother there to talk to,even if it was for something simple like what she wants you to wear,or to tell you she loves you.She is your mother,and you only have one mother.She gave you life,and nursed you when you were sick.She cried on your first day of school,because you were growing up.She was there when you were sad,and she was there to share the moments when you were happy.She was there to celebrate your birthdays,Christmas's,And other holidays.She was the one who stayed up at night when you cried in the middle of the night because you had a bad dream.She has been there for you,and you must try to understand that she loves you very much and that she wants what is best for you.Go give her a hug,give her a kiss on the cheek,apologise to her,and tell her you love her and thank her for the clothes.
2006-10-13 14:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It feels like your mom had some unsightly reviews becoming up and needs to substantiate you do not journey the comparable heartache she went by using. i know a guy or woman is greater mature at sixteen than 14 yet absolutely everyone at any age could make a mistake. attempt to talk to her lower back. do not elevate what your cousins are allowed to do. do not point out how unfair it quite is. tell her you opt to have an open relationship along with her. additionally ingredient out what a super interest she did elevating a daughter who needs to talk to her mom whilst maximum females do not. i don't know if this is going to help open up her eyes, even though it quite is worth a attempt. you additionally can attempt to talk to your dad and see in case you have an best chum in him.
2016-11-28 04:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by gardy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy your mom cares enought to provide you with warm clothes. Show her a little respect, she is the only mother youwill ever have and she has done more for you than you know. She gave you life. Until you are 18 and moved out of her house, you need to play by her rules.
2006-10-13 15:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt you just wear the long sleeved shirt your mom wanted you to wear with the shirt you wanted to wear underneath it, then take it off at the party?
2006-10-13 15:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is your mother, until you are 18 you have to live by her rules like it or not....she is just trying to make the best life possible for you...I went through it with my mom when I was your age, and things do get better..
2006-10-13 14:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by - 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thank your mom for caring about you...Some kids have parents that can give a rats @ss about what they do or where they go.
Some are dead.
2006-10-13 14:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
respect ur mom it's only for your own good
2006-10-13 17:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by alayton_1991 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋