it's sooo weird i loved him with all my heart, he got a new girlfriend-evilgirl- and i cried but then it was so much better i just moved on with life. but now i'm feeling so rejected and want to get him back.
2006-10-13 14:37:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not worth it. Pretend he's dead. Forget him and move on.
2006-10-13 14:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him and move on, he forgot about you and found someone else. I wouldn't even waste my time trying to get him back, if he wanted you he would come back. I know it hurts to be dumped but sometimes it's for the best. You say it was so much better without him why would you want to go back? There is someone out there for you, and then you will forget all about this guy and will be glad that he did dump you, he did you a favor. If he dumped you like that he will do it to the girl he has now when he tires of her too. He doesn't sound like such a nice person any way. Good luck and hang in there.
2006-10-13 15:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Feelings:
When you have a man by your side, and you are actually "being" with him, perhaps you felt comfort, (and perhaps excitement and other emotions if he knows how to trigger them through nature or through nurture). When he destroyed your trust (that comfort feeling?) you lost it, and you felt pain instead (because of the loss of an emotion that you felt for that "object", which can be related to a strong dissapointment). When he had a girlfriend, perhaps you felt that he left you instead of you left him (this emotion is best described as jealousy, since you may be jealous that he doesn't care, and he has the power).
Treatment:
What most people would say (myself personally as well) makes them feel better is to do something that distracts them. The best things are things that are stimulating and exciting. And forget about him, because you know that you shouldn't listen to your emotions under this situation. Use your higher order thinking, the cortex.
2006-10-14 09:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Badman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to re-read yesterday's paper?
Keep on truckin'.
Love is a two-way street.
Plenty more fish in the sea.
Never accuse words of wisdom of being "cliche'". You'll thank yourself later for keepin' movin' on... It's all part of a normal process of growing and developing and becoming your true self. You'll be thankful later that you crawled forward through the emotional turmoil.
And later you'll see that it was a great thing. And you'll laugh about it later when you and Mr. Right are lounging at your vacation home.
And when you get to be old like me and my friends, you'll just talk and laugh about how relieved you were to overcome such relationships...
2006-10-13 14:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Boomer Wisdom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a new girlfriend so clearly he has moved on. It sucks I know but you'll feel better if you just try to move on. Go out and have fun, regain your confidence and soon you'll find someone else and and you'll forget about your ex. Why would you want him back? Find someone who will treat you right...
2006-10-13 14:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by BaBy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel hurt and your crying and evrything but you know what you got to show him that what he does dosent faze you because your still gonna be you talk to other boys that`ll get to him and ALWAYS make sure you look good because the same thing happened to me and my ex came back and he was jealous asking who I was seeing ,dont worry about him he didnt deserve you anyway and soon he`ll realize that
2006-10-13 14:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont put yourself in that position you may care alot about him but evidentilly he dont care about you because he dumped you...just move on hes not worth your tears or you feelings of love
2006-10-13 14:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him between the legs lol...just kidding. the best way to get him back is to act like he or what happened doesn't matter, or he even exists. start showing other guys lots of attention. it's like you're rejecting him. it will drive him crazy, (usually). you have to be strong. friends used to tell me the same thing and i didn't believe them until i tried it. it works. try it.
2006-10-13 14:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may be, you have to let him go. i know all about it so trust me. if you try and get back with him, it will only make you seem desperate. Also, don't let him know that you feel bad about it. Remain friends and if you really want him, (and its not just that you're jealous bcuz of his evil girlfriend) and he wants you, it will work out. Trust!!!!
2006-10-13 14:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by megan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, I know how you feel, I kind of have a broken heart too now.
Tell him how you feel - if he's worth it, he'll take you back :)
2006-10-13 14:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treated you like that then he's not worth the time to dwell on it .Move on to better and brighter things. Be good and God bless...
2006-10-13 14:40:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋