I had a summer fling with this guy and we really had fun and he was always complimenting me and stuff. We talked on the phone all the time. Now I have called him 3 times over the past month and left two messages on his cell, and he still hasn't called back. My friend suggested that maybe his cell is broken, but its just weird becuas he was really into me and admitted it. I just don't understand. What should I do if I see him?
2006-10-13 14:16:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-13 14:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ü allygurl loves wonwon Ü 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not call him again. He is leaving you a message every time he doesn't return your past calls. The message he is leaving you is I don't want to talk with you! DO NOT CALL HIM AGAIN !!! ., I'm sure your Friend who shared her wisdom..."maybe his cell phone is broken" means well but she's just filling your head with hope and what you need is a dose of the truth. YOU said you had "a summer fling" , guess what ? guys think of summer flings in a different context than girls do. Every time you call him he's interpreting it that you're chasing him. Guys , aka: dogs do not like to be chased.!! Ever ! They come around when they want to play. but when they're not with you they more often than not are playing with someone else. It's the way dogs are. Until you form a serious friendship, you won't ever have a lasting boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship, This guys behavior may seem weird to you but it's not. YOU simply don't want to interpret the information he's giving you. He is not interested. PERIOD. If he was interested he'd be calling you just to say hi, how are you. Summer fling OVER...SUMMER IS OVER---FLING IS OVER , don't cry....learn from your mistake. If you do bump into him I suggest you pretend you don't see him because he is definitely avoiding you.
2006-10-13 21:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it was a summer fling so let it go. It can be a million reasons why he doesn't return your calls. The first one that comes to mind is that he doesn't want to be bothered. Even if his phone is broken or even lost he can still get the messages and return your call. I think its time to move on the summers almost over
2006-10-13 21:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by HERE4U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if his cell really is broken then he's not going to get your messages not matter how many times you call him - if he does eventully get those messages you don't want to sound desprate, so you should probablly stop leaving messages. Maybe look for his email address or something. If he likes you and still wants to see you then he will make an effort to contact you. Don't give up totally, just cool it down a little.
2006-10-13 21:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you see him treat him as a friend a and not as a fling and make him work his way back were he was before see if he still interested in you and i think if he hasn't call you is because he might of move on .
2006-10-13 21:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by *Cherrytop* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go he doesnt know what he's missin out on. Most guys never do they always call the wrong girls then they wish they called you or picked up the phone when you called. Watch this will happen and when he calls ignore it as many times as he ignored you but when he calls like the fifth time answer it. Just remember play hard to get no matter how hard you like him it usually pays off.... experience
2006-10-13 21:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Neesaxxlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should call him anymore. If he wanted to call, he would call. I'm not trying to be mean or rude, but I learned a long time ago that people do what they want to do. Just like he found a way to talk to you before, he can find a way to talk to you again.
The funny thing is, once you stop calling him, he'll probably start calling you. Men are weird like that sometimes. Good luck!
2006-10-13 21:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by tye f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you see him then just start to a regular conversation. The normal stuff. Then before you leave tell him to give you a call or that you'll give him a call. Then if he calls or you call him ask him if he still feels the same way he did during the summer and if he says yes then ask him out.
2006-10-13 21:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Summer Lovin'
Had Me A Blast,
Summer Lovin'
Happened So Fast...
summer flings are just that--enjoy it for what it was, it's not going to go anywhere now and I really doubt that his cell is broken, he is sending you a message because he is an emotional weakling who does not have the balls to tell you directly that he's "just not that into you".
2006-10-13 21:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him a last message telling him your open to the possibility of something more than a fling. Let him know however, that you are not going to sit areound waiting. If his phone is broke he'll call. If he's past you then he won't.
2006-10-13 21:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all while u were haveing all this fun with him during the summer did u have sex with him...If u did then thats why he hasn't called u back..He gave u all those compliments to have sex with you...Find someone who really cares for u.You deserve it.
2006-10-13 21:21:29 · answer #11 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋