or lack their lack of? Im tall and I love it, but my short friends hate that I look hotter than them, even my cute short friends. My tall friends could care less if you make a comment about their heught but my short ones just get so insecure and defensive! Why is that? They are like stupid chiwawas!
2006-10-13 14:11:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably for the same reason people get "defensive" when you talk about weight.
2006-10-13 14:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As women, we all usually have something that we are insecure about. For some of your friends, it's their height or shortness. If you are a real friend, please don't keep rubbing it in or bringing it up. It may be stupid to YOU, but that's just the point: They are not You and You are not them. They have probably disliked people making comments on their height a long time before you came along. They may even remember being teased all the time while growing up. If they are very sensitive about it, just respect their feelings and leave that issue alone. I have a friend who is fatter than I am, and she don't like people calling her fat or talking about her weight. Out of deep understanding and much respect for her, I never call her fat and I don't talk about her weight. IF you keep bringing up things or rubbing things in, it will become more hurtful and even annoying, and you may not have those friends anymore.
2006-10-13 14:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's pride. I know a lot of shorter girls. Most are gorgeous as heck. Most don't give 2 spits about their height, but a few go off like a bomb when you just look their way. Even if someone is looking at them in attraction, all heck breaks loose. I guess it's just defensive pride in a way. Maybe a bad past, or even a past where nobody liked them or completely ignored them. Most shorter women are gorgeous I think. But, don't let it get to you when they go off. Just sit down with them and be friends. Tell them the fact that they aren't as tall as some folks don't mean they aren't just as good. Let them know that their size don't make them any less of a human being. Unless you are really talking about a mexican dog in litteral terms. But, I doubt it. Just dis-reguard that last thing, a dog can't yell at you in defense, they bite your nose off and nip at your pants and bite your head off of your shoulders. Lol Bad joke.
2006-10-13 14:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a 5ft6 male. I'm not defensive or feel insecure when someone talk to me about height unless he or she start hurling insulting remarks like "stupid chiwawas" at me!!! So d.a.mn you, brat!
2006-10-13 15:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by A victim of Pay And Pay 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I LOVE short women, I feel very big and strong when I'm with them, even if they are the ones that tell me what to do.
2006-10-13 14:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, im tall (only a couple inches shorter than my boyfriend) and thats the only thing that bugs him about me - he thinks im too tall. (i'm 5'9)... I think shorter people get defensive about their height because they wish they could be tall like us. Who knows?
2006-10-13 14:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Couldn't tell ya that, but I am 5"1 and love it, you know what they say, you know what some guys say, know what's better than a long- legged girl wrapping her legs around you? Is a short-legged woman trying. And my boyfriend loves every inch of me.
2006-10-13 14:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky J 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm jealous of tall girls..it does make them alot sexier...but I consider myself "pocket sized" and cute cause my lack of height 5'3
2006-10-13 14:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i am a male only 5-4 but i do not consider myself short, i actually think i am a large midget.
2006-10-13 14:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by mike_14213 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cuz every body want to be perfect but none is perfect in this world,so nobody like to talk about their weekness
2006-10-13 14:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ahsan T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋