he thinks its not fair to wash his brothers stuff and not theirs i say yr in rel/ship look after yr own stuff?

Question

Life isnt fair but when u live as a couple you have to look after yourselves if they were in their own appartemnt they would be cooking,cleaning,washing etc etc just because they choose to live with us doesnt mean they dont have to do this stuff.Son says his brothers dont do much either but we say they r not in a relationship.They do the odd thing around the house not as much as we would like but still the issue is a 18 year old and 17 year old g/friend should be doing their own stuff they pay $40 a week each rent which is just for the roof over their heads.

Answer 1

The couple should be doing their own laundry, buying their own food or giving you food money.
They should be cleaning up their own messes. If they don't want to tell them to find their own place.