Why is it that women go for bad boys? I am attractive intellegent, and always a gentleman. Because I don't treat women like dirt they aren't interested. Oh, they tell me I'm their best friend and a super guy, blah, blah, blah. I refuse to mistreat women, so I guess I'll just have to go it alone.
2006-10-13 13:13:00 · 14 answers · asked by jsr198 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, dont u probably r a really nice guy, but they tell u that b/c they believe ur too good for them. and if u end up falling in love with her and she will end up hurting u, so then tellin u that u guyz r friends is a good theing b/c they care.
2006-10-13 13:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by EmySaur :D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately love doesn't have anything to do with logic. This is something that happens to both men and women. You can think one thing and then meet someone and all the logic gets clouded by those crazy love hormones. Your'e not alone though...I've seen a lot of really good men with "bad girls". I guess opposites attract.
2006-10-13 20:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple of guys who say the same thing and I came to a conclusion. You see, they try too hard. They get so lovey dovey that it gets annoying. I mean I know they are trying to be nice and that their nice guys but come on.... there's a limit. Don't smother so much. Back off a little. Details are good and a girl likes that but don't go over board.
2006-10-13 20:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Karina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girls like the excitement of a "bad boy" like mama told them to stay away from. They don't care that he treats them like they are throw-away items.
Women are mature enough to realize that when it is time to settle down they want a "nice guy" who will treat them with respect. They want a man who will cherish and protect them. They want someone who will make a great father to future children.
My suggestion to you is to wait and be patient. I am 53 and my guy is 55. We just met and finally found the "soul mate" we always wanted. We had both given up on meeting someone and just met by accident. Love has a way of finding you - you don't find love.
2006-10-13 20:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't have an answer to your question, but my 30yr old daughter is always asking the same question about meeting a nice guy, and she has all the attributes you have, maybe you should get to-gether, she will kill me if she knew I said that.
2006-10-13 20:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by glasgow girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Nice Lady. Nice to Meet You.
2006-10-13 20:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by fghjhkllk; 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of the good ones are taken, but don't despair, there are still some out there. Just keep looking. Never give up.
2006-10-13 20:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by oceansoflight777 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just going after the wrong ones. not all of us like the bad boys ya know.
2006-10-13 20:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by here to help 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
where are u at to meet these women at the bar?? email me and u wil have Texas friend OK
2006-10-13 20:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, hopefully all those girls will grow up soon, and get over there "bad boy" stage.
2006-10-13 20:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by sillysinga7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋