I have a boyfriend who is just PERFECT! He's smart, cute, kind, funny, romantic, sweet, and cool.But I'm starting to fall for my friend. My boyfriend doent know that I"m hangin out with my friend, but I dont want to tell him either. I dont know what to do.
2006-10-13 12:58:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are just being a woman ..all woman are like you..that's why I don't waste my time..
2006-10-13 13:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend so he can find someone perfect for him. What you are doing is selfish and not fair to either. I'm sure you wouldn't want your bf to do this to you, so do the right thing and at least end it with him. I understand your confusion, but its not about making a choice, its about taking the time to find out about yourself. Maybe what your bf provides are not things that are important to you, or maybe you miss the feeling of something new, but no matter what someone's feelings are going to get hurt and if you love your bf, let him go. He deserves a chance to be happy just as you. But relationships are built on trust and you beginning to destroy that.
2006-10-13 13:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't drop your boyfriend. Look at it this way it's your secret or your business and you're not engaged or married to either one of them. If I were you I would date both of them and if everyone is happy then why break something that isn't broke.
On the other hand if your conscious is killing you then you need to really talk to your boyfriend who is perfect about how you could improve your relationship. Because eventhough you may think he's perfect, he can't be because if he were you wouldn't be cheating on him.
Good Luck
2006-10-13 13:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ebonee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is perfect, its not fair to him if your not all in it. I mean, he deserves to have someone who loves him and if you like someone else it is probably best to break up. If finds out through the grape vine it will only make things worse. At this point you could probably get a really good friendship out of it.
2006-10-13 13:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know you are being selfish. you should stay away from your friend for at least a week and if you don't miss him, then ignore your small crush. if you are frustrated with your boyfriend and miss your friend and it is really impacting your life AND you are willing to leave your boyfriend 100%, then go with your friend. otherwise, stay with your boyfriend. but do not keep it the way it is. you cannot sneak around behind your boyfriend's back b/c he deserves to have you 100% and if you can't give that to him, then set him free.
2006-10-13 13:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chiari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to that question. Follow your heart. You don't want to break up with your "perfect" boyfriend and end up regretting the decision you made.
2006-10-13 13:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... your heart isn't satisfied. You should break up and get over your boyfriend... don't expect your friend right away.
The smartest cutest, kindest, funniest most romantic guy on the planet may just not be your guy! Follow your heart.
2006-10-13 13:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with him is better than cheating. Also, have the sense to wait a little while before you start seeing someone else.
2006-10-13 13:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he perfect?
do you love him or does he simply satisfy your needs? my point is, do you think he is "perfect" for selfish reasons?
I don't want to judge; but if you allowed yourself to be in this situation, let him know what you feel and be HUMAN enough to spare him the pain while its not so late, be brave, because after all you brought this upon yourself, not he. He deserves to know that you were weak, that you couldn't be exclusive, and if you want him, truly, say so and quit seeing the other dude. If not, don't pretend you know love, or claim you love him.
2006-10-13 13:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by Spaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think cody is SO much more gorgeous than nick. so go for nick so i can have cody
nick = sammie's bf
cody = my boy
ha ha sammie!
i know her don't worry!
~ Kels
2006-10-13 13:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋