My gf broke up with me and said wanna be best friend with me and she fall in love with somebody else (4 years younger than her) so she don't wanna cheat on me. She said she don't love me what left is rely only. But I still love her, how?
2006-10-13 12:51:00 · 13 answers · asked by chow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might take you a while to get over this. But if she doesn't love you anymore, and is with someone else....do you really want her back?
2006-10-13 12:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is in the exact same situation. You just have to talk with her and discuss getting back together. If she says she's in love with someone there's nothing you can do. And if she says she wants to stay friends that's just her way of making herself feel better for treating you like crap. All you can do is move on with your life. Eventually you'll find someone else who's way better for you and you two will live happily ever after...
2006-10-13 19:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by BChanel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry mate.. takes two hands to clap. If you love her but she doesnt love you, you only have two choice:
- let her go
- try to chase her back
I would prefer option one since women.. once they leave, usually there is no turning back.. especially if they initiate it..
But if you feel you cannot be best friends with her if she cannot be your gf, you can let her know and just stay away to cool down... till you are ready, you can contact her again..
2006-10-13 22:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her why you love her. Hope that she sees what her younger man lacks compared to you. Stick around, understand her, don't become too clingy or available. That's about it. If she wants you back she'll get you back. But don't waste too much time trying, usually this is a lost cause.
2006-10-13 19:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by coletteraubal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, respect her decision. there is no point to force somebody to love you when they actually don't love you anymore. You can find somebody better than her while you carry on with your life.
2006-10-14 06:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Its not worth the trouble. She is in love with someone else.
2006-10-13 19:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's straight forward with you, what else do you want? i don't know why as ppl we tend to cling on to those who do not want to have anything to do with us, it almost like some ppl like to get dogged...where is your self worth? she doesnt want to be with you...so why keep hangin on. your doing nothing but holding yourself back...while she's movin on...how fun is that? you need to get on with your life...stop acting as if it's the end of the world...do yourself a favor and get over it.
2006-10-13 19:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to move on. she did the right thing by letting you know how she felt. respect that you cant make her want and love you again.
2006-10-13 21:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live her alone.Let her go.lf she come back to u just kick her ash.
2006-10-14 09:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt you can...its never seems possible. thats why there called exs.
2006-10-13 20:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋